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Julie Ryan

2018

Questions For Dad

Penny from Terrace, BC, Canada, asked:

Hi Julie,

I’d like to ask my father, Robert (Bob), why he left at such a young age, why by cancer and why do I feel he abandoned me when my adult life was just beginning even though I ‘hated’ him?

Thank you in advance.

Hi Penny,

Those are some deep questions you’re asking so in order to get answers for you, I first energetically connected to you and from you to your dad.

Your father was standing at your right shoulder and this is what he had to say:

– He left at a young age because he had experienced what he had intended in this lifetime. Many believe we (our spirits) choose where, when, and to whom we’re born in order to set our lives on a trajectory of life experiences. We humans judge experiences as good and bad while spirits don’t. So, it’s possible your dad’s short life ended by cancer was a perfect match for what he came to experience.

– Your father told me he chose to die from cancer because it was a lethal yet acceptable (by society) way to exit. He also said it gave everyone a chance to say goodbye and to get used to the idea of him not being there. Just like how our spirits choose our parents, etc., I believe our spirits also choose how, when, where, and with whom we die.

– Regarding your feeling abandoned, your dad said it was a combination of you mourning the possibilities of what your relationship with him could’ve been and the thought that parents are supposed to be around for their kids until they’re really old. The good news is your dad is always around you. It’s important to remember when someone dies, their perceived negative traits stay with their body and their spirit is pure love and light. Perhaps you now have the type of loving relationship with your dad that you envisioned.

Please get a copy of my book Angelic Attendants: What Really Happens As We Transition From This Life Into The Next. I believe you’ll find the information in the book both informative and comforting. It’s available in paperback, ebook and audiobook and is a quick and easy read.

Hope this clarifies things for you and provides some peace to you.

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Mold In Montana

Donna in Columbia Falls, MT, asked:

Hi Julie,

I have been living in mold for the past 20 years and figured out last fall that my health problems have been due to mold. 

Can you rid my body of the mold?  I need enough healing so I can get up and help myself.  My body is so debilitated, it is very difficult for me to do anything. 

Thank you!

Hi Donna,

In order to help you, I first energetically connected to you and then saw a holographic picture of you in my mind’s eye. It was as if I was looking at an MRI, CT Scan or X-ray. You weren’t kidding, you are one sick gal!

Your body is full of black mold which is extremely toxic. It’s so thick, it looks like the sheets of moss you can buy in a craft store.

Next, I saw an energetic healing occur which removed the mold from your body and then bathed your internal organs and tissues with stem cell energy. It looked like a sparkly cloud that swirled through the interior of your body and regenerated what was needed.

Now, here are a few suggestions:

– If at all possible, find another place to live until you can renovate or sell your home.

– Go to moldymovie.com and watch the documentary film. You’ll learn a lot of helpful information.

– Eat healthy food. If God made it, eat it, if man made it, don’t. Here’s a link to a food chart you can use as a guide.

– Check out homebiotic.com for safe mold removal products.

– Find a physician in your area who specializes in treating people with mold exposure. Go to the find a practitioner tab at functionalmedicine.org and enter your zip code. A list of doctors in your area will appear.

Hope this information helps and hope you feel better soon.

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Baby Saw Spirit

Carrie from York, PA, asked:

Hi Julie,

I’m hoping you can help me with this.

Recently, my 2 year-old son woke up in the middle of the night so I went to his room to calm him and get him back to sleep.

Once my son was settled, I walked out of his room, shut the door and then headed back into my own room. When I turned around there was something right in front of me. It was very clearly a person but they came and went so fast I couldn’t tell who it was. Can you tell me who it was?

I’ve been practicing talking to a couple different people that have passed so I’m wondering if it was one of them letting me know they are with us.

Thank you!

Hi Carrie,

Congratulations! Great job seeing and acknowledging what clearly sounds like a spirit in your home. Actually, all of us have spirits surrounding us most of the time, and although many people see these deceased loved ones, they never tell anyone fearing someone might think they’re crazy!

So, in order to get some information for you, I first energetically connected to you to see (in my mind’s eye) what spirits were around you and your son.

Once I got you on my radar, the spirits of an older couple instantly appeared. They identified themselves as your maternal great grandparents.

The man had white hair and was wearing a suit and tie while the woman wore a dress, stockings, and pumps and had on a full apron that tied in the back at her waist. They looked like they had just returned from church and were preparing to host a Sunday dinner.

In particular, your great grandfather is very connected to your baby son. And your great grandmother showed me how she sings to your son. Your baby, as is the case with most small children, can and does see them.

We’re all born with intuitive capabilities and begin shutting down these skills around the age of 7. That’s about the time we’re taught by parents and teachers to discount anything that can’t be scientifically proven.

When we encourage our children by listening to them when they describe what we consider to be psychic phenomenon, and most importantly, by believing them, it allows their intuitive skills to mature and develop. Over time this ability will serve them and others in countless ways.

Your great grandmother wants you to get a blanket sleeper for your baby so he stays warm at night, and your great grandfather wants you to get your furnace serviced before next winter.

One last thing, always remember, every spirit is pure love and light. If seeing or sensing a spirit scares you, just ask them to leave and they will.

Thanks for your question. Hope this information clarifies things for you.

 

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Motherly Advice

Julie from Bridgeport, NE, asked:

Hi Julie,

My mother passed away about 3 years ago and since that time I’ve had a very strong internal instinct that I should make a change in my life.

I’ve been feeling directed to look at my options as far as my career or job are concerned. I have co-owned a business with my sister for 18 years and would like to know what my mother has to say about this.

I have been praying to her and to God to help me be guided in the right direction but have not felt any more certain than I did 9 months ago.

Am I on the right path? Or am I not putting my energy into the right area of my life?

Thanks.

Hi Julie,

Love your name!

In order to get some guidance for you, I energetically connected to you and found your mother’s spirit standing at your right shoulder.

When asking her if it’s in your best interest to stay in business with your sister, I “got” a YES.

When I asked her if it was in your best interest to change careers, she said NO.

Then I asked the same questions to God, the Universe, your spirit guides, and deceased loved ones (the group).

The general consensus was to stay in business with your sister and not to change careers.

In addition, your mother said to only make changes that FEEL right and to remember there aren’t any mistakes in life, just experiences. I’ve found when I do something that feels bad, even when I’ve rationalized the decision in my head, I always regret it.

The group suggested exploring some type of education in a subject that interests you. They said it’d open new horizons for you with the people you’ll meet and adventures you’ll have.

In particular, I “got” it may be a good idea for you to learn about Indian archaeology in your area. Are there any Native American museums or historic settlements nearby? Does a local college or university offer adult education classes on this and other subjects? Perhaps a local library or historical society may have lectures on topics that interest you. I often attend lectures on a multitude of subjects at local universities, museums and online.

One last thing, your mom wants you to stop smoking!

Hope this information is helpful.

Thanks for your question.

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Frustrated Homeowner

Debra from Mountain Brook, AL, asked:

Dear Julie,

We spoke in March ‘17 regarding my new home construction in Atlanta and as part of our conversation you referred me to your Feng Shui expert. I did make your and her suggested changes and the house should be completed late this year.

Today I am writing concerning the recent exorbitant number of items requiring repair in my current home. They include the refrigerator & freezer, separate ice machine, disposal, hot water dispenser at sink, cold water dispenser at coffee bar, pantry door jam light mechanism, Lutron controlled kitchen overhead light that will not turn off, the food processor motor died, and these are just in the kitchen of my current home (completely renovated 13 yrs ago and not yet listed for sale).

Other things in other rooms are in need of repair. Virtually everything involved is either mechanical or electrical. 

Additionally, there has been a recent increase in paranormal activity on my rear patio.

Something is wrong!

Can you please scan my current home and tell me if I’m doing anything to create these issues? 

Hi Debra,

Wow, just hearing about all of your house problems makes my head spin so I can only imagine how frustrated you must be feeling.

In order to get some information for you, I first energetically connected to you and then through you to your home.

The following is a combination of what I saw along with any meanings associated with each item as I scanned your home.  All descriptions are based on the vantage point of facing the front of your house:

– There were two hobo spirits sitting at a campfire in the left side of your attic. These spirits represent the energy of people taking advantage of your generosity (especially financial).

– On the right side of your attic, I saw two little girls wearing early 20th century party dresses with big bows in their hair having a tea party. They told me their names were Sallie and Lucy. Sallie was holding a baby doll with a porcelain face. I thought it was interesting to note I “got” Sallie was spelled with an “ie” instead of a “y” and the doll was in fact representative of porcelain-faced dolls from that era.

– There was lots of water energy flowing from the kitchen window above the stove on the left side of your house through the main level and out through the bathroom window on the right side of your home. It looked like medium-strength rapids in a river. I believe this frenetic energy is causing your water/plumbing/electrical/mechanical malfunctions. I also “got” this phenomenon signifies you may be feeling like you’re drowning from all the responsibilities and commitments in your life. 

– Your maternal grandparents’ spirits were in the kitchen. Your grandmother was standing at the stove and your grandfather was sitting at an island.

– Your mother’s spirit was near the vanity in your master bath and your father’s spirit was in the laundry room adjacent to your master bathroom. 

– A woman’s spirit was sitting at a desk in your bedroom. She appeared to be in her 60’s and told me her name was Aunt Clara.

– Although deceased loved ones are often around us, I “got” your family members were there to offer support and were seen in locations that correlated with specific home or life issues.

– Lastly, there was what looked like a Great Gatsby era (1922-1925) party in your backyard. There were many spirits in black tie attire at what looked like an elaborate celebration. I “got” this scene represented how you are a gracious hostess who gives fabulous parties. 

Having said all that, two things come to mind. First, please schedule a private session with me so we can clear the energy from any of the above elements you wish, and second, I suggest consulting my feng shui expert again for physical remedies to help alleviate unwanted energies from your home.

I truly believe the combination of these energetic solutions will remediate your current home challenges and help prevent future issues from occurring.

Thanks for your question and good luck with your move to Atlanta.

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Phantom Pink Dove

Jessica from Eunice, LA, asked:

Hi Julie,

Can you tell me how a pink dove appeared out of nowhere in my photo? I didn’t see it while I was taking the picture, just afterwards.

In addition, there are always a lot of pictures I take with spirits in them. Is something hanging onto me?

I can feel spirits and give messages from people who have passed and I’m always 95 to 100 percent accurate with my messages. Should I pursue this line of work?

Thank you, Jessica

Hi Jessica,

Thanks for your question. It’s the second one in less than a year involving a phantom pink dove appearing in a photograph. In both cases, no one saw the bird when the picture was being taken, only afterwards.

Please know pink doves actually do exist. They’re extremely rare and are mostly found in the Republic of Mauritius, an island nation in the Indian Ocean off the southeast coast of the African continent. I believe the pink dove in your picture was chosen to get your attention and to let you know it wasn’t a chance encounter with a regular dove.  

Next, in Christian religions, the dove is the symbol for the Holy Spirit and most of us know the dove is a symbol of peace. This leads me to believe since there aren’t any coincidences in life, there is indeed a spiritual message connected to this occurrence.

In order to get some information for you, I energetically connected to you and from you to the pink dove. The message I heard was for you to follow your passion communicating with the deceased. I also heard how in doing this, you provide much needed comfort to those grieving the loss of a loved one.

As for lots of spirits in your pictures and whether or not someone’s spirit is hanging on to you, we’re all surrounded by our deceased family and friends as well as spirit guides, angels, etc. Even though most people at some point in their lives see or feel a non-physical presence, they usually dismiss it and never talk about the experience with anyone. Those of us who do acknowledge the spirit beings around us, learn to trust, validate, and continually enhance our skills. It’s important to remember everyone has intuitive capabilities and it’s our prerogative to either utilize or ignore them.

Hope this clarifies things for you.

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Addict Boyfriend

Christina from Roberts Creek, BC, Canada, asked:

Hi Julie,

I often feel great with my boyfriend Zac, and at other times I get a strong feeling that he is keeping something from me. 

He has had a Meth, Heroin, and Fentanyl addiction which causes a lot of problems between us.

Can you check in with him and see what he is hiding? I know that sometimes he smokes weed and want to know if I’m missing anything.

Thanks so much!

Hi Christina,

Thanks for submitting this question. Unfortunately, it’s one many people have either experienced themselves or know someone whose life has been affected by addiction.

The most important thing to remember is you didn’t cause Zac’s addiction, you can’t control it and you can’t cure it.

When I ask if Zac is still using addictive substances, I “get” a YES. And when I ask if Zac lies about his using, I also “get” a YES.

Even though some addicts are highly functional and appear to lead a normal life, every addict is good at manipulation, lies, and creating drama to deflect attention away from their substance abuse. All of this behavior makes the sober partner question their suspicions and sometimes even their sanity.

In addition, many sober partners become what’s known as co-addicts enabling and covering up for the addict in an attempt to help them. Unfortunately, co-addicts can ruin their own lives in the process of trying to protect the addict.

Now, here are a couple of suggestions:

-Trust your intuition. If you’re feeling like Zac is keeping something from you, he most likely is. Our internal guidance systems rarely mislead us.

– Consider consulting with an addiction specialist who can help guide you through this situation. There are lots of resources online like recovery.org where you can find resources in your area to help you.

And always remember, you can only control your own thoughts and actions, so take care of yourself first. Think of how flight attendants tell passengers to put on their oxygen masks before attempting to help another person.

Sending hugs!

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Manifesting My Man

Lisa from Springfield, MO, asked:

Hi Julie,

I am 50, single, and open for my ideal husband to come into my life.

Can you give me some direction on what I should be doing or changing to achieve this into my reality?

I also would like to have more friends that are available to do things.

Thank you,

Lisa

Hi Lisa,

What a great question, one most women have asked at some point in their lives.

In order to get some answers for you, I first energetically connected to you and then called in your spirit guides. I figured they’d be the best ones to advise you in your husband hunting adventure.

Seven spirit guides appeared standing behind you in a horseshoe. They all looked like variations of Father Time (picture Dumbledore in the Harry Potter movies or Gandalf in the Lord Of The Rings movies). That’s how they first appear to me so I know who they are. Then, when I focus on a particular guide, they morph into an image depicting how they looked in the past life that correlates with what you’re currently experiencing.

Having said all that, here are some suggestions:

– Join associations and groups that participate in activities that interest you. An example might be a hiking or biking group, a church group that builds Habitat for Humanity houses, or a group that feeds the homeless. Philanthropic or just-for-fun organizations can broaden your circle of friends and potential partners. Make sure the group includes men.

– Let people know you’re interested in meeting a special someone. You’d be surprised how many parents and grandparents introduce their single family members to potential mates.

– Look at online dating sites and be smart about it. When it’s time to meet, arrange a rendezvous at a public place like a coffee shop or restaurant. Be sure to tell someone the date/time/location of your meeting and the man’s name. Although online dating can be intimidating, it works for a lot of people.

My friend Cheryl is a divorced mother of five in her late 50’s. A few months ago she met a widower who’s a father of 3 and grandfather of 4, online. It was a match! They’re now engaged and very happy.

I know this all must seem a bit scary, so just remember to fake it until you make it. Confidence is a learned skill. The more you practice, the easier it will be.

Finally, keep focused on your mission and be very clear about what qualities you wish your husband to possess. Be open to how he will come into your life. When you meet someone who isn’t right for you, simply be grateful for the opportunity to focus on your desires. It’ll move you closer to finding your man.

Enjoy the journey and let us know when you meet him!

 

 

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Deceased Dog Messages

Tina from Norco, CA, asked:

Hi Julie,

I had to help my dog Taela pass this week and I have a few questions. 

She had bone cancer and although I had her arm amputated, the cancer came back within a few months. All I wanted was for her to be happy, healthy and pain free. 

So, I’d like to know who she is with on the other side (animal or human) and is she okay with the decisions I made for her? My last question is … what was her favorite Halloween costume?

I know that sounds funny, but she always seemed so happy to dress up.

Any messages you can pass on to me from Taela will help my heart heal. 

Thank you for your time and all that you do with your special gift.

Hi Tina,

Thanks for your kind words.

My condolences on the loss of Taela. Losing a beloved pet can be excruciating and sometimes seems almost as bad as losing a close relative or friend.

In order to answer your questions, I first energetically connected to you and from you to Taela. She was standing to your right and here’s what she had to say:

Taela is grateful you made the decisions you did. She told me she would’ve been okay if you had put her down earlier but knew you needed more time with her and likewise, she needed more time with you.

Taela is always around you in spirit form and she thinks that’s great. She especially loves getting to go with you wherever you go. Pay attention to the little signs Taela uses to let you know she’s close by. If you think you heard, felt, or smelled Taela, you did. And, if you think you saw her out of the corner of your eye, you’re correct, you did.

Your Taela didn’t particularly care for being dressed up in any costumes, rather, she enjoyed the extra attention and making you happy. She showed me how she used to dance around for you while all dressed up and how much that seemed to delight you.

Finally, Taela wants you to consider getting another dog, in particular, a puppy. In addition, she suggested calling the new dog “Taetwo” for Taela-Two! She knows this puppy will help you heal and bring lots of comfort and joy to you. If you decide to get a new dog, please send a picture of you with it.

Hope you find this information comforting.

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