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Julie Ryan

Law Of Attraction

Lost Sense Of Self

Avery from Grosse Pointe, MI, asked:

“Can you please read my spirit and tell me what is to come? I have been in a time in my life where I’ve lost a sense of who I am and am slowly recovering from it. I would love for you to tell me why this is and if I am handling it correctly. Thank you so much for your help and time.”

Hi Avery,

When I scanned your body, you looked like a dirt figure with flowers growing out of it. Imagine an outline of your body and many multi-colored flowers of all types, shapes, and sizes growing from the perimeter of your body outline.

To me, this symbolizes that you’re growing wonderful life experiences. Although you may feel like dirt (lack of sense of self), it’s all part of facilitating a beautiful garden (life).

My advice is to keep going in the direction you’re now headed even if you don’t really have a grasp on what that is. Something that may help is to ask yourself this question, about anything … “Is it in my best interest to … (and finish the sentence)”. The answer you get will happen immediately, as quickly as you can snap your fingers. That answer is your intuition (spiritual guidance) and will always supersede intellect. Our intuition is always right. If the answer takes longer than a second, it’s your brain talking.

Also, remember, we co-create our lives with God, who always has a plan for us. When we loosen trying to control everything, we’ll normally get a life and/or experience that’s even better than what we initially imagined.

Blessings, Julie

By Julie Ryan|2015-04-22T14:58:20+00:00April 22nd, 2015

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Career and a Boy

Madison from Birmingham, AL asked:

“Lately I have not been feeling myself at all. Every day I find myself questioning everything I do, even the littlest things. My future has also been giving me extreme anxiety. I sometimes think I will never find a boy that will love me or a career that I could prosper in. Please help me try and figure things out.”

 

Hi Madison,

Regarding that boy who will love you, right now I get you’ll meet him in your mid-twenties. And regarding that career thing, at this moment in time, I get nursing, although I don’t get that it’ll be in your best interest to be a nurse. Even though that sounds a bit twisted, perhaps you’ll have a career in the nursing industry in a business or other capacity.

With both of your questions, keep in mind, since they’re in the future, lots of variables (like free will, and the behavior of others) will be a factor and will influence the trajectory of your life.

Remember to ask yourself the question, “Is it in my best interest to …” and finish the sentence with anything you’re wondering about. When the answer instantly comes, it’s your intuition (spiritual guidance) talking. If the answer takes longer than a couple of seconds, it’s your brain answering. Your intuition will always supersede your intellect and will always be correct.

Blessings, Julie

 

By Julie Ryan|2015-04-29T01:48:17+00:00April 29th, 2015

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Relationship and Career Guidance

Serena from Ft. Lauderdale, FL, asked:

“I’ve recently become very confused over a relationship I have with a boy. I feel as though I am being led on and being taken advantage of emotionally and giving more into this relationship than I should. I am just curious if I should keep giving my all into this and trying to make it work, or if I should just stop trying. Also, I am having trouble with what I want to do career wise, I’m not sure if I am on the right track, it would just be nice to have some extra guidance.”

Hi Serena,

Regarding your relationship with your boyfriend, I don’t get it’s in your best interest to continue dating him. Follow your gut. How does it feel when you’re with him? Is your questioning the relationship a red flag? Ask your intuition, “Is it in my best interest to …” and follow your own internal guidance.

As for your career, pick something that interests you and something you really enjoy, then find a way to monetize it. I get it could be something in the food services industry. Again, ask your intuition. It works with any and every question and will always steer you in the right direction.

Blessings, Julie

By Julie Ryan|2015-05-12T19:16:29+00:00May 12th, 2015

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Lack of Emotion

Shannon from San Diego, CA, asked:

Throughout my life I’ve never really had much emotion. All of my friends call me emotionless because I don’t cry in sad movies, I’ve never liked a guy, I don’t fight with people. If I am ever sad or depressed I never show it to anyone, not even my closest friends. Why am I so out of touch with my emotions? Also I’ve always felt like I have had a bland life. Not that it’s a bad thing, because I genuinely appreciate everything my parents have done for me. It’s just nothing bad or tragic has happened nor anything spectacular. I don’t feel like I have any special qualities about myself or life.  I want to know if it’s bad that I feel this way or if I’m just taking everything for granted.

Hi Shannon,

You’re not out of touch with your emotions; you just don’t wear them on your sleeve for everyone to see. My guess is you either weren’t allowed to express your emotions as a child, or weren’t around people who did.

In addition, I don’t get that you take anyone or anything for granted. I get that you sincerely appreciate your life and loved ones. Your ability to remain calm is an extraordinary quality, one your friends most likely appreciate in you.

Having said all that, everything you mentioned about yourself is good. You are the one who controls your reaction to something. If you want to be more demonstrative, you will. In the meantime, all is well.

Blessings, Julie

By Julie Ryan|2015-05-17T22:39:25+00:00May 17th, 2015

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Proud Grandfather

Alexis from Nashville, TN, asked:

My grandfather passed away when I was a young child and lately my father has been telling me how proud my grandfather would be of my accomplishments. I’m just wondering if you can tell me what my grandfather thinks of me and if he has any advice.

 

Hi Alexis,

Your dad is correct, your grandfather is very proud of you. He said you’re smart, beautiful and honest. He said you’re very ambitious and that people will try to convince you to do things that go against your values. He advised, if you stay true to yourself, you’ll be just fine.

He also wanted you to know his spirit is always around you, protecting and advising you.

Blessings, Julie

By Julie Ryan|2015-05-17T22:42:50+00:00May 17th, 2015

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Shall I Move To CA?

Cynthia from Snow Hill, MD, asked:

Julie-

I am very connected to spirits. Always have been. I am having lots of synchronistic experiences. One around Zhena and a solo show I am writing. I left Ojai two years ago. Living close to my hometown now. I think to finish my show not sure what else is here for me to learn. I feel I need to move back to CA. And wondering about Alice who is coming through my daughter Sophie and my writing. Any information is welcome.  Thank you for this work you do. I look forward to hearing from you.

Hi Cynthia,

I get it’s in your best interest to move back to CA. The people who can best help you are more easily accessible there.

The solo show you’re writing has tons of potential. I get NBC could in some way be involved with it.

Alice is suggesting you find a more peaceful/tranquil place to write. She thinks your current place is too frenetic.

Blessings, Julie

By Julie Ryan|2015-05-17T22:46:34+00:00May 17th, 2015

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Uncontrollable Anxiety

Christine from Sacramento, CA, asked:

Julie, lately my anxiety has been uncontrollable and I do not know what to do. I have this overwhelming feeling that something bad is going to happen to me or someone close to me. I have had this feeling for weeks and I am unable to escape it. I am having trouble sleeping and eating and I’m scared that it will only get worse. I was hoping you could give me insight as to why I am feeling this way. Thank you so much for your help.

Hi Christine,

I’m not getting anything bad is going to happen to you or to someone close to you.

I’m getting your anxiety is being caused by someone or something else’s energy. You’re picking up the vibrations from outside of yourself and it’s negatively affecting you. It’s called resonance. The Physics Classroom defines resonance as – when one object vibrating at the same natural frequency of a second object forces that second object into vibrational motion. We all vibrate at the rate of others around us.

At the end of the day, we can only control our reaction to people and situations. My suggestion is to evaluate with whom you’re spending time. Do your best to avoid or lessen the time you find yourself hanging around negative, anxious people. If you begin to feel anxious, change your surroundings and companions as soon as possible.

Blessings, Julie

By Julie Ryan|2015-05-17T22:52:33+00:00May 17th, 2015|

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