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Julie Ryan

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Spirit Relationships When Dying

Kathy in Albuquerque, NM, asked:

Hi Julie,

I studied your Twelve Phases of Transition® chart after hearing you on the Dave Asprey podcast. 

I believe I heard you say that the mother will greet you first at the time of death. 

What if I didn’t have that great of a relationship with my mother? I’m actually worried about this. 

I was hoping other loved ones would arrive first, not necessarily my mother.

Thanks.

Kathy

Hi Kathy,

Thanks for your question. It’s one I’m often asked.

We’re all eternal spirits attached to a human body … every one of us. And, since personality traits stay with a person’s body when they die and all spirits are pure love, there’s nothing to worry about.

In the thousands of end-of-life transitions I’ve seen (in my mind’s eye) over the past twenty-plus years, it’s always the closest maternal spirit who arrives first as their child is dying and runs the show from the spirit side of the equation.

It’s she who brings in the angels, other loved ones’ spirits, and the spirits of deceased pets. And, each time, it’s the maternal spirit who orchestrates everything beautifully. It’s truly a glorious scene.

To learn more, please consider reading my book Angelic Attendants: What Really Happens As We Transition From This Life Into The Next. I believe you’ll find it interesting, enjoyable and most of all comforting.

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Grieving Mom Questions

Susan from Queensland, Australia, asked: 

Hi Julie,

I heard you on ‘The Grief Coach’ podcast and really liked how you explained spirit.

In March of 2021, I tragically lost my 24-year-old daughter Scarlett from a pulmonary embolism.

I am wracked with guilt thinking that I missed something and should have taken her to the doctor.

I just hate to think of her collapsing and going into cardiac arrest alone on her bedroom floor. I’d like to know if she suffered and if it was quick.

Could we have saved her if the ambulance had gotten there sooner?

Thanks so much from a grieving mother,

Susan

Hi Susan,

My sincere condolences on the loss of your daughter Scarlett. I can’t even imagine what you and your family are going through.

To get some answers for you, I first connected to you in Australia and then from you to Scarlett.

Here’s a synopsis of her replies:

Scarlett wants you to know she (her spirit) chose to transition when, where, how, and alone. There wasn’t anything you or anyone else could’ve done to prevent this from happening.

Scarlett also wants you to know she was indeed surrounded by angels and deceased loved ones so she was (as she put it), far from alone, and she didn’t experience any suffering.

She said that’s why she chose to exit the way she did. It was quick, easy, and painless.

Scarlett wants you to know she’s always around you and appreciates your taking care of her dog.

You may want to investigate the Helping Parents Heal organization. It’s a fabulous global community that provides support to parents who’ve lost a child. I’ll be speaking at their conference later this summer and look forward to meeting the families who will be attending.

In addition, everyone can communicate with a deceased loved one. Here’s how …

Just think of Scarlett, then say something to her either silently or aloud.

Her response will immediately come into your head and feel like a thought.

You’ll know it’s Scarlett answering you when the thought arrives instantly or even before your question or statement is spoken. It’s really that simple.

To learn how to communicate with deceased loved ones, consider taking my new online, self-paced, Angels and Enlightenment Training. It comes with post-training practice sessions to help you develop, validate, and enhance the natural abilities we all have.

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Healing Career Suggestions

Shweta from Kolkata, India, asked:

Dear Julie,

I have a beautiful seven-year-old daughter and a deep inner calling to devote my life as a healer but due to recurring financial blockages, I’m stuck and not able to see and feel clearly.

I have tried all those physical earthly means to have a good career but nothing seems to be working.

Kindly help me clean my energy so that I can move into a more connected and abundant way with my daughter and myself and fulfill my inner calling.

Regards,

Shweta

Hi Shweta,

Thanks for wanting to have a career as a healer. You’ll undoubtedly help many people.

When asking Spirit for guidance to help you realize your calling, I “got” the following suggestions:

  • Use social media to establish a following 
  • Do healings on family and friends and ask them to recommend you
  • Get involved with a local group of healers, perhaps through a spiritual bookstore
  • Join and participate in online spiritual groups on Facebook
  • Volunteer healings at philanthropic organizations (can be done remotely).

All of these suggestions are free and will help you hone your skills and keep your vibration high which will allow you to continue to receive guidance from Spirit.

Remember, our thoughts create our reality and all thoughts are neutral until we give them meaning so never give up.

Best wishes for your success.

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Song From Heaven

Heather from Phoenix, AZ, asked:

Hi Julie,

I just finished listening to your 12 steps of dying explanation, I’m interested in reading your book, and I’m curious about dogs passing over.

We recently lost our dog Mazzy-Star from metastasized bone cancer. She passed around 8:30 pm on January 20, 2022.

After her surgery, we received a call that she’d made it through okay. Then, as we were about to leave to pick her up, my fiancé and I heard our “Hey Google” turn on and start playing a country song all about Heaven.

I knew right then and there it was a sign from something or somebody. I’m curious about who or what helped ease our minds that night and let us know that Mazzy was going to pass.

Thanks.

Heather

Hi Heather,

I’m so sorry to hear about your Mazzy’s passing.

In order to get information regarding who or what was preparing you for Mazzy’s death by playing the song about Heaven, I did an instant replay of the event.

What I saw (in my mind’s eye) surprised me. I saw a figure of a man standing next to your Google player. He resembled depictions of Jesus I’ve seen. This spirit had brown shoulder-length hair and a beard. He was wearing a long white gown belted at the waist with a rope and had sandals on his feet.

At first, I questioned if I was imagining this so I asked him his name. He said it was Jesus.

He also said his main purpose both when he was in human form, and now in what he called “Christ Consciousness” (spirit) form, was to comfort people, exactly what he was doing for you.

Jesus went on to say all of his teachings, experiences, and legacy are about providing comfort, a big component of love.

I’m guessing that’s not the answer you expected. It certainly wasn’t the one I expected either.

Hope this information helps provide comfort to you, your fiancé, and your family.

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Bones and Flu

Mariann from Toronto, Canada, asked:         

Dear Julie,

I have been on a long journey that started out with my right hip and lower lumbar area of my back.

I have had bone scan recently and my doc says “nothing urgent” to discuss. He wants to wait until we get the bone density results and then discuss both. Right now the docs are focused on my bones.

In the meantime, I have had 2 bouts of what I assume is the flu. I’m unable to keep anything down but chicken broth.

Julie can you look into me and tell me what you are seeing?  I don’t seem to make it two steps ahead and it’s very hard.

Thanks.

Mariann

Hi Mariann,

Sorry to hear you’re feeling so punky.

In order to get some information for you, I energetically connected to you in Toronto and saw a viral infection. I believe you have accurately diagnosed yourself with the flu.

Your idea to eat chicken broth is perfect. Studies have shown that a hearty bowl of chicken soup may help you fight off viruses, strengthen your immune system, clear nasal passages, have a mild anti-inflammatory effect and speed recovery. When talking about chicken soup, the University of Pittsburg Medical Center says, “Believe it or not, there’s more to this dish than just great taste – there’s some real healing power in it.”

In addition, here are a few simple things we can do to avoid catching the flu:

– Wash your hands throughout the day and especially before you eat.

– Take 1,000mg of Ester C and 50mg of Zinc each day (3x/day if you’re sick) – it’s a powerful immune booster.

– Get some sunshine.

– Drink lots of water.

– Take Vitamin D3. Studies show people with low levels of Vitamin D have more colds and flu.

– Run a humidifier in your bedroom at night in cold winter months. Furnaces dry out the air in our homes which in turn dries out our sinuses making them more susceptible to viruses.

Regarding your bones, it does appear to me you have some osteoporosis going on. To help you heal, I used stem cell energy to add calcium to your whole skeletal system and make it stronger.

Women’s health expert Dr. Christiane Northrup has great advice about dealing with and healing osteoporosis. You may want to do some research on osteoporosis before your next doctor’s appointment. It’s always a good idea to be an informed patient and participate in your own treatment plan.

Hope you feel better soon!

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Egyptian Royalty

Cindy from Aiken, SC, asked:

Hi Julie,

It’s Cindy from South Carolina. I’m 41 year-old immigrant who moved to the United States 30 years ago.

I was wondering if you could tell me anything about my former lives.

I’ve been on a spiritual journey for the past couple years practicing principles of the law of attraction, studying about the power of positive affirmations, feung shui, the chakras, reiki, raising my vibration, and listening to everything I can about manifesting wealth and prosperity.

And, as crazy as this might sound, I’ve always felt as though I was once a queen of Egypt or part of some type of royalty.

Even though I can’t explain it, I feel a strong connection to Egypt and although I’ve never been there, it’s on my bucket list of places to visit.

Are you able to tell me about my past life and if in fact there’s any connection to Egypt or even royalty?

I truly appreciate your guidance and knowledge and enjoy listening to your podcast every Thursday night.

Looking forward to hearing from you soon.

Thanks,

Cindy

Hi Cindy,

Welcome to the Woo-Woo Club! It sounds like you’re really learning a lot about a multitude of spiritual and law of attraction topics. You’re on a fascinating journey.

Regarding a past life in Egypt, I first connected to you and then asked the question whether you’d ever been a member of the Egyptian royal family. The answer I “got” was yes, in 1794, as the wife of a lesser prince who was a cousin of the ruler Mohammed Pasha of the Ottoman Empire. You lived in what is modern-day Cairo.

In addition, I “got” you’ve lived at least 17 past lives in Egypt which would explain your fascination with the country.

Please consider enrolling in my Angelic Attendant Training class and you’ll learn how to discover this type of information yourself.

Hope you get to visit Egypt someday and check off that bucket list item!  

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Canker Sore Cure

Margarita from Miami, FL, asked:

Hi Julie,

I would like to know what is causing my mouth canker sores. I have them almost every week.

At first, they were on the sides of my mouth but now I get them on the tongue as well which is more painful.

Is it something I’m eating or a vitamin deficiency?

Thank you in advance for any help/insight you can offer.

Margarita

Hi Margarita,

Sorry to hear you’ve been suffering with canker sores in your mouth. I’ve had them and know how painful they can be.

In order to get some information for you about what’s causing your canker sores, I energetically connected to you in Miami and saw (in my mind’s eye) a sore near the base of your lower right teeth. It was between your lower palate and right cheek. I watched (again in my mind’s eye), an energetic healing take place where a paste was applied to the sore to help it heal.

The Mayo Clinic says, “Canker sores, also called aphthous ulcers, are small, shallow lesions that develop on the soft tissues in your mouth, on your tongue, or at the base of your gum and goes on to say most canker sores go away on their own in a week or two.”

While connected to you, I “got” (that means I received information), sugar and chocolate are foods contributing to your canker sores. You may want to try avoiding them for a couple weeks and see if it makes a difference. In addition, I “got” for you to increase your intake of Vitamin B12 and Zinc.

In the meantime, a couple of remedies that can help you heal are rinsing your mouth with warm salt water and/or making a paste from baking soda and water. Place the paste on your sore. It’ll hurt like crazy for about a minute and will help it heal faster. This is what I use when I get a canker sore.

Hope this information helps.

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Stuck In The Middle

Miyoshi from Atlanta, GA, asked:

Hi Julie, 

I do hope all is well with you. I have an odd request and kind of a long one.

I have an aunt who has been in the hospital since before Father’s Day and has recently been placed on hospice. (By the way, I am the one communicating with hospice to try to help my uncle understand what’s going on.)

My aunt was originally scheduled to come home last Friday to be cared for there and my family requested a feeding tube for her. The feeding tube was never inserted because, according to the case manager, her electrolytes were too low. Also she was taken off a ventilator a couple weeks ago and has continued to breathe on her own. My family thinks the hospital is not doing enough to help her.

I am trying to communicate with everyone to keep them in the loop about what’s going on. It’s challenging because I’m not there with my aunt and I feel stuck in the middle.

Please help! Can you scan her and give me an idea of where she is? Also, can you tell me what’s going on with her and what she is requesting from us?

Thank you for all you do!!!

Much love, Miyoshi

Hi Miyoshi,

Your aunt and entire family are so fortunate to have you helping them through this heart wrenching situation.

In order to check on your aunt, I first energetically connected to you and then from you to her. She is in Phase 9 of the Twelve Phases of Transition. This means your aunt is surrounded by angels, deceased family members and pets. Her spirit is out of her body and is attached to the top of her head in what looks like a cartoon caption bubble. An additional angel is on either side of her spirit bubble.

Your aunt told me she is ready to go, isn’t in pain and just wants her family around her.

End-of-life situations are always hard, especially if there is conflict about what the patient’s wishes are and who in the family is aware of those wishes. For that reason, I highly recommend Conscious Passage by Gay Lyn Birkholz, a former professor of medical ethics. It’s a short, easy-to-read book that guides one through the process of deciding what if any medical intervention is desired when they can’t make medical decisions for themselves. Communicating these wishes helps ensure the proper care is administered and keeps families from being torn apart when making life and death medical choices for a loved one.

Hope this information helps to clarify where your aunt is on her journey to Heaven.

Sending lots of hugs your way!

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Manifesting My Man

Lisa from Springfield, MO, asked:

Hi Julie,

I am 50, single, and open for my ideal husband to come into my life.

Can you give me some direction on what I should be doing or changing to achieve this into my reality?

I also would like to have more friends that are available to do things.

Thank you,

Lisa

Hi Lisa,

What a great question, one most women have asked at some point in their lives.

In order to get some answers for you, I first energetically connected to you and then called in your spirit guides. I figured they’d be the best ones to advise you in your husband hunting adventure.

Seven spirit guides appeared standing behind you in a horseshoe. They all looked like variations of Father Time (picture Dumbledore in the Harry Potter movies or Gandalf in the Lord Of The Rings movies). That’s how they first appear to me so I know who they are. Then, when I focus on a particular guide, they morph into an image depicting how they looked in the past life that correlates with what you’re currently experiencing.

Having said all that, here are some suggestions:

– Join associations and groups that participate in activities that interest you. An example might be a hiking or biking group, a church group that builds Habitat for Humanity houses, or a group that feeds the homeless. Philanthropic or just-for-fun organizations can broaden your circle of friends and potential partners. Make sure the group includes men.

– Let people know you’re interested in meeting a special someone. You’d be surprised how many parents and grandparents introduce their single family members to potential mates.

– Look at online dating sites and be smart about it. When it’s time to meet, arrange a rendezvous at a public place like a coffee shop or restaurant. Be sure to tell someone the date/time/location of your meeting and the man’s name. Although online dating can be intimidating, it works for a lot of people.

My friend Cheryl is a divorced mother of five in her late 50’s. A few months ago she met a widower who’s a father of 3 and grandfather of 4, online. It was a match! They’re now engaged and very happy.

I know this all must seem a bit scary, so just remember to fake it until you make it. Confidence is a learned skill. The more you practice, the easier it will be.

Finally, keep focused on your mission and be very clear about what qualities you wish your husband to possess. Be open to how he will come into your life. When you meet someone who isn’t right for you, simply be grateful for the opportunity to focus on your desires. It’ll move you closer to finding your man.

Enjoy the journey and let us know when you meet him!

 

 

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