This week, I won’t be doing a live show because I’ll be in Columbus, Ohio, attending the funeral of my life-long best friend.
I was with Lisa the weekend before last and stayed at her home as I often did. When I left her around noon on Sunday, she was perfectly fine. She was off to a bridal shower, and I was headed to a different one. I flew back to Birmingham that evening.
Less than 48 hours later, on Tuesday morning, I received a call that she had passed away in her sleep. WHAT?!?!? It didn’t seem possible. Lisa was one of the healthiest people I knew—no medical issues, on no medications. The official cause of death was an apparent heart attack. Needless to say, my heart is shattered.
Lisa and I met when I was 10 years old, and our families have been intertwined for four generations. My grandmother even dated her grandfather in high school! We knew each other’s history like no one else—childhood, elementary/high school/college, careers, families, friends, boyfriends, marriages, divorces, the birth of children, the loss of loved ones, and countless adventures. You name it, we did it together.
This sudden loss has reminded me of one crucial lesson: cherish every moment with those you love. Don’t take anything for granted. If someone wants to spend time with you, talk to you, or make plans, say yes. Take the call. Plan the event.
Even amidst this heartbreak, blessings have surfaced. In the past year, though we lived far apart, Lisa and I saw each other every six to eight weeks. We even had three more events planned before year’s end. I’m grateful I was just with her, and that I had the chance to meet her newest grandbaby, nine-week-old Isla. And most importantly, I can communicate with Lisa’s spirit anytime I want.
That’s the key takeaway here: learn how to communicate with your loved ones in Heaven. Whether you choose one of my courses or someone else’s, just do it. Research shows that this spiritual connection is the most effective way to heal grief.
Please keep Lisa and her family in your prayers. And if you could, please say a prayer for me too.
Sending lots of love,
Julie
So sorry to hear about your friend Lisa. Sending prayers and love to her family and to you Julie. You are so right about cherishing time with loved ones. Hugs to you sweet lady.
Thanks Guys!
My deepest condolences. 🌹🕊️ As you know, she is standing on your right.
Exactly! Thanks.
An unexpected and sudden passing of a best-friend-forever most definitely must be a shock to the core of your soul. I pray for your grief to be lightened and your understanding deepened even beyond your current great wisdom of life and death that you already share with all of us. Take care of yourself.
Thanks Shelley!
Thank you for sharing your story. What a history and shock to her lose Lisa so suddenly. I am sure you will experience the waves of grief, even though you communicate with her on the other side.
Love and prayers to your families during this healing time.
Blessings,
Noelle
Thanks Noelle!
Thank you for sharing. It is sad but gratifying to know you too understand our connections to loved ones never die. Our spirits-souls shed the physical vessel and our/their essence is still here with us, always available to speak to each other.
Tears for your loss and love to your connections.
Thanks Mary!
Love, hugs and prayers out to you, Julie. Please be comforted in having had this enduring friendship. What a blessing!
I agree! She was and is a gem! Thanks Mary!
I’m so sorry. I had chills through my entire body reading this and thank you for sharing something so personal. Sending much love to you and her entire family.💕
Thanks Ann-Marie!
Sudden death seems the hardest based on what I have experienced. Yes I am cherishing every moment with my loved ones. Sometimes life gets so busy it is hard to always say yes. This is a great reminder. Love you Julie!
Thanks Sandra. Love you back!
Sending love, hugs and prayers. What a special bond. If possible it would be fun to hear her adventures on the other side.
Much love 💕
I’ll be sure to share them. Thanks Lisa!
Julie take care of your heart and always remember Lisa with more love as u process her loss. My deepest of condolences to you, your family and Lisa’s family. And yes I agree 100%, to anyone reading this, take an intuitive class or meditate call on your loved ones, god or what ever divine source you resonate with- your loved ones will show up and in a way that you will feel that energy from spirit!
I agree. Thanks Kim!
Sending all love💙
Thanks Michelle!
Divine love, light, peace and comfort to Lisa’s family and to Julie. May a soothing balm cover and surround Julie’s heart during this time.
Awww … thanks Angie!
Julie, I’m so sorry you lost your sweet friend here on earth. What an unexpected loss. I’m so glad you had just seen her. You’re so right, every moment is a blessing. Love and comfort to you. Victoria Sol
Thanks Victoria!
Julie,
I’m so very sad to hear this.
Life is so fleeting. We must enjoy the moments we have with our loved ones.
Hugs and prayers.
Janet
Thanks Janet! I know you speak from experience!
Dear Julie,
I realize that this day for Lisa’s funeral and the days to come will be so difficult. Trying to understand God’s plan and why a person, who is so young has died is not easy. Thinking about your sister’s loss also.
Love you and sending hugs!
Thanks Sharrie! Love you too!
Sending so much love to all of you. We had a very short friendship but I loved every minute. And even started coming to Fabulous Fridays.
May you find comfort in the beautiful memories you have of Lisa, Julie. Love ♥️ and light from Erica – South Africa
Thanks Sweet Erica!
She loved you and Fabulous Fridays!