Questions For Dad

Penny from Terrace, BC, Canada, asked:

Hi Julie,

I’d like to ask my father, Robert (Bob), why he left at such a young age, why by cancer and why do I feel he abandoned me when my adult life was just beginning even though I ‘hated’ him?

Thank you in advance.

Hi Penny,

Those are some deep questions you’re asking so in order to get answers for you, I first energetically connected to you and from you to your dad.

Your father was standing at your right shoulder and this is what he had to say:

– He left at a young age because he had experienced what he had intended in this lifetime. Many believe we (our spirits) choose where, when, and to whom we’re born in order to set our lives on a trajectory of life experiences. We humans judge experiences as good and bad while spirits don’t. So, it’s possible your dad’s short life ended by cancer was a perfect match for what he came to experience.

– Your father told me he chose to die from cancer because it was a lethal yet acceptable (by society) way to exit. He also said it gave everyone a chance to say goodbye and to get used to the idea of him not being there. Just like how our spirits choose our parents, etc., I believe our spirits also choose how, when, where, and with whom we die.

– Regarding your feeling abandoned, your dad said it was a combination of you mourning the possibilities of what your relationship with him could’ve been and the thought that parents are supposed to be around for their kids until they’re really old. The good news is your dad is always around you. It’s important to remember when someone dies, their perceived negative traits stay with their body and their spirit is pure love and light. Perhaps you now have the type of loving relationship with your dad that you envisioned.

Please get a copy of my book Angelic Attendants: What Really Happens As We Transition From This Life Into The Next. I believe you’ll find the information in the book both informative and comforting. It’s available in paperback, ebook and audiobook and is a quick and easy read.

Hope this clarifies things for you and provides some peace to you.