Kym from St Marys Bay, New Zealand, asked:
Hello Julie,
I have just met someone and he feels very “right” for me, but I have been very naive in the past and misjudged men!
Is he “the one”?
Thank you for guiding me.
Kym
Hi Kym,
I’m delighted to hear you’re enjoying your new man.
Is he Mr. Right? Well, he seems to be at the moment, and the moment is all we have.
The best way to know you’re being led in a positive direction is to pay attention to how you feel.
If you enjoy this man’s company and you want to spend more time with him, he’s your guy. No second guessing needed.
If, however, there ever comes a time when you don’t relish being around him, it’s time to investigate your fear. If it’s a fear that he can physically harm you, immediately cut off the relationship.
Otherwise, if you’re just feeling unsure because of what happened with past loves, that’ll be a false fear and you’ll want to proceed with your connection.
The most important thing to remember, is, our thoughts create our reality, so go for it and have fun!
