Sara from Birmingham, AL, asked:
Julie,
I have been seeing a man who was a friend and who has lived in New York/New Jersey for almost a year now. Our relationship has consisted of many emails, texts and seeing each other twice. He has said all along that he wanted to develop a relationship, but won’t commit to any actions in moving forward. He only uses words.
Is there any hope that this romantic relationship will ever amount to anything and we will be together?
Hi Sara,
I’m getting a “no” it won’t amount to anything and that you “won’t” be together.
Now keep in mind, I’m getting that answer at this moment in time. Anything can happen. You and he may change your mind. If you get together, you may both decide to pursue a relationship.
These decisions are known as “Free Will” and can instantly change the trajectory of your relationship.
A better question may be, “Is it in my best interest to continue this relationship?” See what answer you get.
When I ask if it’s in your best interest to continue this relationship, I get a “no”.
Blessings,
Julie
By Julie Ryan|2015-06-19T01:07:46+00:00June 19th, 2015|