Teresa from Leiria, Portugal, asked:
Hello Julie,
I’ve been thinking about donating my body to the University medical school when I pass. I’m wondering whether this would create any trauma for my soul during the transition process, or for my family. I also have the option to decline receiving the cremated ashes afterward.
What does Spirit say about this? My intention is to be of service in a meaningful way, and this feels like one way to do that. At the same time, I’d like to avoid burdening my children with decisions about ashes or final arrangements. Do you feel this should remain my personal decision, or would it be better to discuss it with them ahead of time?
Blessings,
Teresa
Hi Teresa,
What a wonderful question! You’re already handling this beautifully, thoughtfully, lovingly, and consciously.
When it comes to donating your body to a medical school, Spirit told me there is no trauma to the soul. At death, the soul is already out of the body before anything is done to it. The body becomes the “car” you used this lifetime, and you’ve simply stepped out of it. What happens to the car doesn’t affect the driver. Spirit sees your intention to help others as an act of service and love that ripples forward.
As for your family, what will bring them the most peace is clarity. If you choose donation, letting them know ahead of time will prevent confusion later and allow them to honor your wishes without worry. Sharing your decision gently, from a place of love, often becomes a gift to them rather than a burden. You can let them choose whether or not they want the ashes and bless whatever they decide.
Always remember, love leads in life and beyond.
Hugs and Happy 2026!
Julie
