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Julie Ryan

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Miscarried Baby

Kiley from Pocatello, ID, asked:

Dear Julie,

I had a miscarriage 7 years ago that was very devastating for me.

One of the things that has been really hard was that I miscarried at 11 weeks and never found out the sex of my child.

Can you tell me what sex my child was and what has happened with them? Thanks.

Hi Kiley,

My condolences on the loss of your baby.

When I got you on my radar, I could see what looked like a newborn infant wrapped in a receiving blanket with bunnies on it next to you. Your baby was a girl.

She wanted me to let you know that everything unfolded perfectly. She told me she wanted to experience what it was like to be a miscarried fetus, and you wanted to experience what it was like to miscarry. You both got your wish.

Your daughter told me she had a genetic mutation/malfunction that caused the miscarriage. Although you may already know this, your baby wanted me to tell you what happened was perfectly normal.

Miscarriages are nature’s method of making sure the human species survives. She said miscarriages are way more common than we think. It’s just that most women aren’t aware they’ve miscarried.

Your baby’s spirit is always around you. So far, she has not reincarnated. She told me you two have been together in 73 previous lifetimes and will be together in many more.

You can talk with her anytime you wish. Just ask her a question in your head. Her answer will be the first thing that pops into your head. If the answer takes more than a couple of seconds, that’s your brain answering you.

Hope this brings you some peace.

Thanks for your question.

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Dallas Boyfriend

Brooke from Dallas, TX, asked:

Hi Julie,

I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years now. Lately I’ve been feeling like maybe it isn’t working out anymore.

Should I try and make this work with him or is there someone else better out there for me?

If I hear it from you it’ll be more of a push since I’m in a weak place right now.

Thank you!

Hi Brooke,

With regard to your relationship, sounds like you’re already receiving intuitive guidance.

There are a couple of main ways our spirits communicate with us about relationships or anything else for that matter.

In your case, when you begin to question whether or not you want to spend time with your boyfriend or want to explore someone new, that’s guidance.

Also, when you think of him or are around him and you feel what we consider to be negative emotions (uneasiness, emotional pain, anger, etc.), that too is guidance.

The easiest way to get answers is to ask “Is it in my best interest to” and finish the sentence. Be as specific as possible. Spirits are very literal.

An intuitive response will come immediately, as fast as you can snap your fingers. If you think about it for more than a second, it’s your brain answering you.

So, when I ask, is it in Brooke’s best interest to continue a romantic relationship with her current boyfriend? I get a NO.

Is it in Brooke’s best interest to terminate her relationship with her current boyfriend? I also get a NO.

When I ask is it in Brooke’s best interest to terminate a romantic relationship with her current boyfriend? I get a YES.

See the difference? Perhaps it’s better for you to have your current boyfriend as just a friend who’s a boy!

You already know what to do. Life is supposed to be fun, so go find some fun!

Thanks for your question.

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Is He Coming Back?

LaShunda from Douglasville, GA, asked:

“I have been on and off with a guy for nearly 3 years now. We had a disagreement and we haven’t spoken in over a month. Do you feel he’ll come back for a serious relationship? If so, when? Is he involved with someone else at the moment?”
 

Hi LaShunda,

Right now at this moment in time I’m getting that he won’t come back for a serious relationship and that he is currently involved with someone else.

Keep in mind, when predicting the future, there are an unlimited amount of variables that can affect outcome. Will you meet someone you like better? Will his current relationship work out? Does he really possess the attributes you want in a man? The possibilities are endless.

Any decision or combination of choices can change the course of a relationship (or anything else) which makes the future unpredictable. This phenomenon is what religions refer to when discussing how “free will” impacts our lives.

I believe there is always a much bigger picture unfolding than we’re able to perceive. And, I believe things are always happening in our best interest, even when life gets uncomfortable. We’ve all experienced tough situations that have eventually ended up benefitting us.

Do your best to focus on what you want. Think of all the wonderful qualities you’d like to have in your partner and you’ll be more likely to attract that special somebody. Enjoy the adventure!

Blessings,

Julie

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All Just A Lie?

LaShunda from Jayess, MS, wrote:

“I have been involved with a guy for over 2 years now. Three weeks ago he called things off saying he was never really in love with me and he no longer wanted to pursue a relationship with me. In the midst of the argument, he insisted that his feelings for me were real, I still mean the world to him, and told me that he wasn’t dating anyone else. This left me confused. I would like to know if he’s afraid of his real love for me or was it all just one big lie?”

Hi LaShunda,

I believe it was, in your words, just one big lie. 

I also believe it’s in your best interest to avoid this guy.

Wish him well, and focus on what you want in a man. Then, be open to what and whom appears.

You deserve someone who will love and cherish you.

Hope your heart heals fast!

Blessings,

Julie

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Career and a Boy

Madison from Birmingham, AL asked:

“Lately I have not been feeling myself at all. Every day I find myself questioning everything I do, even the littlest things. My future has also been giving me extreme anxiety. I sometimes think I will never find a boy that will love me or a career that I could prosper in. Please help me try and figure things out.”

 

Hi Madison,

Regarding that boy who will love you, right now I get you’ll meet him in your mid-twenties. And regarding that career thing, at this moment in time, I get nursing, although I don’t get that it’ll be in your best interest to be a nurse. Even though that sounds a bit twisted, perhaps you’ll have a career in the nursing industry in a business or other capacity.

With both of your questions, keep in mind, since they’re in the future, lots of variables (like free will, and the behavior of others) will be a factor and will influence the trajectory of your life.

Remember to ask yourself the question, “Is it in my best interest to …” and finish the sentence with anything you’re wondering about. When the answer instantly comes, it’s your intuition (spiritual guidance) talking. If the answer takes longer than a couple of seconds, it’s your brain answering. Your intuition will always supersede your intellect and will always be correct.

Blessings, Julie

 

By Julie Ryan|2015-04-29T01:48:17+00:00April 29th, 2015

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Is It Love?

Sara from Birmingham, AL, asked:

Julie,

I have been seeing  a man who was a friend and who has lived in New York/New Jersey for almost a year now. Our relationship has consisted of many emails, texts and seeing each other twice. He has said all along that he wanted to develop a relationship, but won’t commit to any actions in moving forward. He only uses words. 

Is there any hope that this romantic relationship will ever amount to anything and we will be together?

 

Hi Sara,

I’m getting a “no” it won’t amount to anything and that you “won’t” be together.

Now keep in mind, I’m getting that answer at this moment in time. Anything can happen. You and he may change your mind. If you get together, you may both decide to pursue a relationship.

These decisions are known as “Free Will” and can instantly change the trajectory of your relationship.

A better question may be, “Is it in my best interest to continue this relationship?” See what answer you get.

When I ask if it’s in your best interest to continue this relationship, I get a “no”.

Blessings,

Julie

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Past Life Partner

Judy from Miami, FL, wrote:

I met a man a few months ago. We worked together briefly and we experienced extremes of famously getting along to completely frustrating one another and disagreeing. We stay in touch sporadically now although I would love to have him in my life. It’s fairly easy for me to move on when things don’t work out and he’s still very much in my thoughts. Sometimes when I first wake up I see his face and know that’s my subconscious. There is an intense attraction mentally/spiritually/physically but neither one of us seems to have the courage to step up. Is this a past life connection? Will we ever connect in this lifetime as a relationship?

 

Hi Judy,

Yes this is a past life connection, actually a connection from 73 past lives together. And yes, at this moment in time, it’s highly probable you will connect in this lifetime in a romantic relationship.

Now remember, everything in the future is subject to change because of many variables, the least of which is free will. Having said that, if this man is in your thoughts as much as you say, I believe it’s a sign for you to take action.

What would happen if you showed him this post? It just may break the ice and be the catalyst needed to get the two of you together.

What’s the worst thing that can happen? If he rejects you, you’ll most likely be reunited in your next lifetimes anyway. I say … go for it!

Blessings, Julie

By Julie Ryan|2015-06-25T20:22:48+00:00June 25th, 2015|

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