Vickie from Stockholm, Sweden, asked:
“Lately I’ve been worried about my brother. Although he is older, he struggles with basic things such as school and finding a path he feels dedicated and excited about. It makes me worry that he is not happy with himself or his life path. Will he find a path that he will be content with?
Also, I am currently putting effort into an aspect of my life that has already been set up to not go very far. Although it feels rewarding right now, I am worried that it will end up being completely pointless in the long run and if the rewarding feeling is mutual or if it’s only on my side.”
Hi Vickie,
Your brother’s struggles are his way of figuring out what he wants to do. We all have our own path that’s perfect for us even if it doesn’t look like it to our family and friends. He’ll find his sweet spot. Focus on yourself and your aspirations.
As for you, pay attention to how things feel and focus on the ones that are pleasurable. The feeling is mutual which is why it feels good to you. Trust that the next phase will be just as enjoyable. And it will be. Be open to the adventure. Often our lives turn out better than we can imagine.
Blessings, Julie
By Julie Ryan|2015-05-12T19:32:49+00:00May 12th, 2015