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Julie Ryan

Julie Ryan

Guardian Angel and Grandma

Lushan from Dubai, UAE, asked:

Hi Julie,

Can you please connect with my grandmom and guardian angel and see if either or both have a message for me?

I’d also like to know the name of my guardian angel.

Thanks,

Lushan

Hi Lushan,

I’ll be delighted to connect with your grandmother and guardian angel.

First, your grandmother said you’re a beautiful girl and you shy away from any reference to your looks. She went on to say your beauty is a gift from God and to embrace it. She also said if you work on enhancing your self-esteem, more people will notice you and you can then spread your inner beauty to many others.

As for your guardian angel, I was told its name is Michaela.

Remember, spirits don’t have a gender. We’re just used to equating a name with a gender and that’s fine. It helps us have a frame of reference for what we understand as humans.

Michaela wanted you to know it is always around you and is available to assist you at any time. All you have to do is ask.

Angels and spirits don’t interfere with our lives but they love to help us if invited to.

So, ask away and let your grandmother and guardian angel assist you.

Thanks for such a great question.

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A Mother’s Love

Kristie from Hyde Park, MA, asked:

Hi Julie,

I recently saw you on the “Helping Parents Heal” Zoom meeting. Listening to you was very helpful and I look forward to reading your book. Thank you for all that you do to help people heal. You are truly amazing.

I am wondering if my son is still angry with me in the spirit world. We were not on the best of terms when he was murdered because I asked him to leave our home. He was bi-polar and unmedicated, with addiction/alcohol abuse issues and I hadn’t spoken to him in about 7 months.

He was shot in the head and remained in the SICU for 2 weeks and 1 day and because of the pandemic, we were not able to be by his side as often as we wanted. The hospital staff would call us in when they thought he wasn’t going to make it. 

Thankfully, we were there when he passed away and I was able to tell him how much I loved him. I also told him I was sorry and that I had always loved him and would continue to love him right up until my last breath and beyond.

He was heavily sedated so I don’t know if he even heard me or knew that my husband and I were there. Now my beautiful boy is gone from this Earth. I would give anything to be able to speak to him and let him know how much he was loved and how much I miss him.

Thank you,

Kristie

Hi Kristie,

Thanks for sharing your comments about the love you have for your son. My condolences to you and your family on his passing.

Regarding your questioning if he is angry with you in the spirit world, when I asked him, his answer was an instant NO!

He also told me he knows you love and miss him and wants you to know he’s frequently around you.

All spirits are pure love and that includes your precious son. Any so-called “negative” personality traits remain with the body when someone dies.

Please remember, we all choose when we go, who’s with us when we go, and the circumstances that surround our deaths. Your son chose to have you and your husband with him when he passed. In addition, he was surrounded by lots of angels and the spirits of many deceased family, friends and animals. That scenario is a testament to the love you felt for your son and the love he felt for YOU!

Lastly, you can talk with him anytime you like. Just say something to him either aloud or in your head and he’ll instantly respond. It’ll seem like it’s your thought. How you know it’s from him is, his answer will come into your head within a second. If it takes longer, that’ll be your brain answering you.

Practice talking with him and pay attention to the answers you receive. The more you do it, the more validation you’ll get and that’ll give you confidence. Before long, communicating with your son will be second nature to you.

Hope you find comfort in this information and from my book Angelic Attendants: What Really Happens As We Transition From This World Into The Next.

Sending big hugs your way!

 

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Weight, Diet and Hormones

Ambi from Brighton Beach, East Sussex, England, asked:

Hi Julie,

Thank you in advance for all your help and advice.

When I got married, I was just over 11 stone (154 lbs) but after three children, my weight has risen to 15 stone (210 lbs). No matter how much I diet or exercise the weight doesn’t seem to budge.

This year as I turned 40, my periods have not been regular, I’ve had my thyroid checked and the doctors say it’s fine.

Lastly, I seem to be angry a lot, my hair is very thin and brittle and I have a chocolate addiction. Could this be a hormone issue?

Thanks for any light you can shine on my situation.

Ambi

Hi Ambi,

Thanks for submitting you question. It’s a reality most of us have had or are currently experiencing.

Excess weight issues are perplexing to even the most well-read person. What diet and how much exercise is best? Why isn’t something that seems to be working for others not working for me? There seem to be so many weight-loss strategies it can make our heads spin.

Having said all that, what I’ve learned from a life-time of weight struggles is, it’s all about insulin resistance and hormones. If we can balance our hormones, especially in the post-partum, peri-menopause and menopausal times in our lives and combine it with a healthy diet, we have a better chance of weight management success.

Optimal hormones combined with a low carbohydrate, whole-foods menu seems to be what our bodies crave. A simple mantra I use is, if God made it, eat it, and if man made it avoid it. Even a small child when shown an apple and a cookie can tell which item was man-made.

In order to get more information, I energetically scanned you in the UK and “saw” (in my mind’s eye) a hologram of your body and it needed hormones, estrogen in particular. So, I added energetic estrogen to your body and you immediately responded.

Next, I noticed a lot of inflammation over your whole body. Inflammation looks like red fog over body parts. I used a royal blue anti-inflammation energy to calm it down. Then I “got” (received information) your inflammation was caused by the eco-system in your gut being less than optimal.

Since food is the best medicine, please consider doing a gut biome test. It’ll tell you the best foods to eat and avoid making your gut and therefore immune system healthy. In other words, this information will allow you to do the Ambi diet, one that makes sense for your body.

In addition, some of my favorite books on the weight conundrum are:

Why We Get Sick by Benjamin Bikman, PhD

Eat Smarter: Use The Power of Food by Shawn Stevenson

Fast This Way by Dave Asprey

The Pegan Diet: 21 Practical Principles for Reclaiming Your Health by Mark Hyman, MD

Lastly, please consider consulting a physician about bioidentical hormones. To learn more about how hormones diminish as we age and how to replenish them to keep our brains, bones and hearts healthy, I recommend visiting Dr. Christiane Northrup’s website and to find a physician in your area specializing in bioidentical hormones, please go to Institute for Functional Medicine.

Hope this information helps you feel better soon.

 

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Transition Phase Reversal

Kayla from Minneapolis, MN, asked:

Hi Julie,

Can someone start to leave their body, to transition, and then have it be reversed with a healing? Not reversed with a healing but can they reverse through and completely out of the Phases of Transition?

I’ve read your book Angelic Attendants recently and was curious about that because of my own experience of feeling like I had started to transition in the past while I was so unwell in 2016.

I also have your books for kids and read them to my nephews.

Thanks,

Kayla

Hi Kayla,

What a great question!

Thanks for reading my books and for sharing Angel Messages For Kids and Angel Messages For Dogs with your nephews.

It has been my experience in working with countless families going through a loved one’s final days that dying people can and sometimes do reverse course in the Twelve Phases of Transition™. This isn’t necessarily due to a healing, rather, it’s because the person decides they want to experience more of their human life before they die.

Our spirits are the power source for our bodies which is why when our spirit detaches from our body at the time of death, our body stops working.

As someone is dying and in one of the Phases of Transition, I’m unable to do an energetic healing on them because their spirit is out of their body and attached to the top of their head in a bubble configuration (see illustrations). I equate trying to scan a dying person to trying to read an x-ray in a pitch-black room without electricity. In both instances, I’m unable to see inside the body due to a lack of power/electricity.

Hope this clarifies things for you.

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Healing Endometriosis

Amy from Sligo, Ireland, asked:

Hi Julie,

Hope you are well. I just listened to your podcast with Sandra Rea on her Fiercely Spiritual podcast.

I am certainly going to book an appointment with you for a private session and in the meantime, would love to know if you can detect anything and/or do a healing on my reproductive system.

I’m currently trying to live with and help my body heal from endometriosis. Chronic flare-ups cause intense physical pain and bring me stress around fear about my fertility.

Thanks for any insights you can offer.

Amy

Hi Amy,

Thanks for your question and for listening to Sandra and me on her show.

The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), defines endometriosis as a condition in which the type of tissue that forms the lining of the uterus (the endometrium) is found outside the uterus. Endometriosis can result in excessive bleeding, pelvic pain and in some cases infertility. Many women with endometriosis have no symptoms.

Women’s global health expert and OB/GYN, Christiane Northrup, MD, says, “Endometriosis does not cause infertility, but is felt to be a contributing factor. Whatever is causing the endometriosis symptoms may also be responsible for the infertility, but one does not cause the other.”

In order to get some information for you, I energetically connected to you in Ireland and could see (in my mind’s eye) a fair amount of endometrial tissue outside of your uterus and on your ovaries and fallopian tubes. Next, I watched (again in my mind’s eye) an energetic healing in which a laser was used to eliminate it. The remaining charred tissue was then removed and left a normal-looking reproductive system.

Although outpatient laparoscopic procedures are commonly used to diagnose and remove rogue endometrial tissue, research is showing eating processed foods high in unhealthy fats and sugar may be a contributing cause of endometriosis and exacerbate inflammation and pain. With that in mind, I recommend reading Why We Get Sick by Benjamin Bikman, PhD, in which Dr. Bikman discusses the role diet plays in healing endometriosis and lots of other medical conditions.

Hope you feel better and find this information helpful.

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Caregiver Strategies

Trish from Windsor, CT, asked:

Hi Julie,

My elderly mother has been living with my husband and me and while caring for my mom has been a privilege, it has also been quite tiring for us.

Throughout her life, my mom has showed great determination and strength of will (which is probably why she has reached this remarkable old age). Although I’ve seen changes in my mom and know that she is weakening, I also feel like she is struggling to hang on. Maybe there is something that she needs that she is not expressing to me.

I’m experiencing many emotions. While I love my mother and want to help her to the end, I miss my life with my husband and want to enjoy time with him and more freely visit and spend time alone with our adult children. Also, since I left my career to take care of my mom, I sometimes feel a loss of myself.

If I only knew what our future holds, I feel like I could either relax into our current situation and treasure this remaining time with my mom or, make some changes that would enable me to care for her and not feel like I’m losing time with the rest of my family.

Can you tell me how I can help my mom and what phase of transition (if any) she’s in?

Thank you,

Trish

Hi Trish,

Sounds like you have your hands full and are experiencing what a lot of people with elderly parents are facing.

A May 2020 Report conducted by the National Alliance For Caregiving (NAC) and the American Association of Retired Persons (AARP), shows 53 Million, almost one in every five Americans, are caregivers for an elderly parent or in-law. And, most if not all of them experience the emotions you mentioned (including guilt).

Douglas Wolf, PhD, a professor of aging studies at Syracuse University claims, “If you have a parent who needs help and you’re not providing help, then your mental health score goes down. If you have a parent who needs help and you do provide help, your mental health score goes down. It’s no worse to be a caregiver than to not be a care-giver.”

So, what can you and those caring for an elderly loved one do?

Here are ten coping strategies for caregivers from agingcare.com:

1. Respite – If possible, plan a weekly break.

2. Research Caregiver Resources – Contact your Area Agency on Aging for information on federal, state and local programs that may be able to provide financial assistance or other services that can reduce your caregiver stress levels.

3. Set Boundaries – It’s okay to say no when you don’t want to do something.

4. Accept Your Limitations – Focus on things you can affect and let go of anything you can’t change.

5. Get Organized – Prioritize, make lists and establish a daily routine. Divide large tasks into smaller, more manageable ones and learn to delegate.

6. Communicate – Stay in touch with family members, friends and outside resources and ask for help when needed.

7. Seek Caregiver Support – Join a support group for caregivers like Caregiver Action Network, Family Caregiver Alliance, National Alliance for Caregiving or Parenting Our Parents. In addition, there are many online options including ones covering a specific disease like Alzheimer’s or Parkinson’s.

8. Stay Active – Do what you can to get some exercise. Even a short walk can help you lessen stress and maintain or improve your own health.

9. Attend to Your Own Physical and Mental Health – Eat as healthy a diet as possible and make sure to add something fun to each day. Read a book, watch a movie or adopt a new hobby.

10. Take Time Off Work – Like you did, consider taking a break from your job. Eligible employees covered under the federal Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) may be able to take up to 12 weeks of unpaid leave per year to care for an immediate family member.

As I’m writing this, your mom is in Phase 4 of the Twelve Phases of Transition. As I describe in Angelic Attendants, this means her spirit is out of her body and attached to the top of her head in what looks like a cartoon caption bubble. In addition, she is surrounded by a horseshoe of angels that her deceased parents are anchoring. Your mom told me she isn’t ready to go, is in occasional pain and she needs a sweater.

Hope all this information provides you with some helpful resources and information as well as comfort!

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Addiction Gene

Laura from Albany, NY, asked:

Hi Julie,

I found you when you were interviewed on the Inspire Nation show and have been so enjoying your podcast ever since.

In addition, I just purchased your book, Angelic Attendants, and am looking forward to diving in!

I was wondering if you could help me “cut the cords” for my desire to drink. My father passed away at the age of 52 from cirrhosis of the liver and I swore I would NEVER find myself on a similar path. But 12 years post-divorce, here I am at the age of 54, drinking MUCH more than I want to, on a nearly nightly basis.

It’s something that I feel deep shame about and I truly believe my drinking is keeping me from being who I came here to be.

I took a 10-month class from a wonderful spiritual teacher and had some really magical, mystical experiences. I’d like to continue developing these abilities and begin to work toward my life purpose. Maybe I chose to have this love/hate relationship with alcohol in my Life Plan but I SO want to be done with it!

My partner says he will never not drink, so removing alcohol from my home is not an option. I hope that you can help me. Is there some sort of a desire for alcohol switch you can flip to OFF?!

Many thanks, for your beautiful work! I’m so happy I found you and hope to take your training in the future.

Much love,

Laura

Hi Laura,

Thanks for listening to my show and for reading Angelic Attendants. I hope you find it informative, comforting and heartwarming.

Regarding your questions around excessive drinking and finding yourself emulating your father, turns out you’re absolutely right! There is a polymorphism (genetic variation) of the DRD2 gene found to be associated with alcoholism and other substance abuse disorders including cocaine, nicotine, opioid dependence and obesity.

An article titled, Addiction and its reward process through polymorphisms of the D2 dopamine receptor gene reports that in an effort to compensate for deficiencies of the brain, one form of the DRD2 gene, the A1 allele, renders the dopamine system inefficient and rewards substance abuse that increases brain dopamine levels. In essence, people with this gene can have a super sensitivity to addictive stimuli.

In addition, an article titled, Neurogenetics of dopamine receptor super sensitivity about addiction relapse, said, “We propose that low D2 receptor density and polymorphisms of the D2 gene are associated with risk for relapse of substance abuse, including alcohol dependence, heroin craving, cocaine dependence, methamphetamine abuse, nicotine sensitization, and glucose craving.”

Is there a genetic component to addiction? Well, some researchers believe there is and addiction sure seems to run in families. Is it nature or nurture? Probably both.

As a sugar addict with alcoholism in her family, I believe I too have this DRD2 polymorphism in my gene pool mix and although I did a DNA healing on myself, what finally worked for me was to completely give up sugar almost three years ago.

You’ll never be able to totally avoid being around alcohol just like I can’t avoid being around sweets. We can however, limit it in our homes. You’ll figure out a way.

In the meantime, I did a DNA healing on you and suggest you consider talking with a licensed addiction specialist who can assist you. A good place to begin your confidential search is at the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), an agency within the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS). Another good resource is the therapist finder at Psychology Today.

You are absolutely on your life’s path and it includes an experience on the addiction adventure. Trust you’ll be led to the people you need who will act as your tour guides. 

 

  

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Pregnancy With Fibroids

Patty from San Francisco, CA, asked:                           

Hi Julie,  

I found you through the Annette Figueredo’s Fertility and Spirituality Summit when you spoke about “Woo-Woo for the Womb”.  

Two weeks ago, I transferred a fresh embryo (my first IVF/pregnancy) and I’m nervous about it because I have fibroids.  

I was having fibroid pain during IVF prep and now I’m worried the fibroids will grow during the pregnancy and cause the baby and me pain and complications.  

Will we be OK??  Will you scan me please?  

Thank you so much!

Patty

Hi Patty,

What exciting news, congratulations! Thanks for your question and for listening to my interview with Annette.

Regarding your fibroids and pregnancy, to assist you, I energetically connected to you and focused on your uterus.

I saw (in my mind’s eye), your tiny fetus and several fibroids. One is fairly large and is pedunculated. That means it has a stalk of tissue attached to it. (Picture a mushroom with a head on top of a stem). The other fibroids were submucosal and just under the lining of your uterine cavity. I energetically removed all of them.

Next, I watched (again in my mind’s eye) a healing that removed strands of fibrin from your uterus. Fibrin is described by the Miriam-Webster dictionary as, “A white, insoluble, fibrous protein used in the clotting of blood.” To me, it looks like strands of a spider web and reminds me of the fiber silkworms produce to make their cocoons.

In addition, I watched some of your DNA get re-sequenced. This healing corrected a mutation in a strand of your DNA that was producing excess fibrin which in turn was causing your fibroids.

I “got” that your pregnancy will go well and you and your baby will both be just fine.

Lastly, I asked my dear friend, global women’s health expert, Dr. Christiane Northrup who is an OB/GYN, for her opinion about your concerns. Her response was, “My experience is that I NEVER saw anyone have a problem carrying a full-term pregnancy with a fibroid. But, in rare cases, the fibroids can sometimes disintegrate during pregnancy and that can be quite painful as the tissue begins to break down.”

Hope the healings and information help to alleviate your fears.

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Weight Issues

Jolene from Oviedo, FL, asked:

Hello Julie, 

I have been following you for a long time and have read your Angelic Attendants book. It really helped me a lot.

For the past three years I’ve been struggling to lose this excess weight and build back up my confidence.

Is there stuck energy in my body somewhere? Is it inflammation from my food? Is it something in my subconscious that keeps me stuck? What is it???

Please help. I am so desperate!

Thanks,

Jolene

Hi Jolene,

Thanks for your kind comments and for reading Angelic Attendants.

As someone who’s had a lifelong struggle with excess weight, I completely understand your frustration.

In order to get some information for you, I energetically connected to you and saw (in my mind’s eye) lots of inflammation in your body. Research shows inflammation is the main cause of both illness and extra weight.

Focusing on how I feel when eating certain foods, makes the choices a lot easier for me. This includes completely giving up sugar a couple years ago when I finally realized how addictive it was for me. Now, make no mistake, I still want sugar, I just don’t eat it anymore. (Not even cake at my son Jonathan’s wedding!)

A few books that have educated and helped me and may help you are:

The Bulletproof Diet by Dave Asprey

Why We Get Sick by Benjamin Bikman, PhD

Eat Smarter: Use The Power of Food by Shawn Stevenson

My personal motto is, if God made it, eat it and if man made it, I do my best to avoid it.

Take it one day at a time and trust your body to most importantly, heal itself while you get smaller.

Good luck!

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