Ryann from Richmond, VA, asked:
Hello Julie,
My mother is suffering from early onset Alzheimer’s and has been in hospice for almost 2.5 years. She lost her eyesight, almost all her memory, and barely speaks anymore. She is young (69), but looks 20 years older than her biological age.
My mom hasn’t had any quality of life since she went into hospice. She lives in a dark, dingy, nursing home where she is being kept alive without any stimulation.
Our situation has been very painful because of how long she and my family have been in this holding pattern.
I’m wondering if you could scan her and tell me what phase of transition she is in, whether she is ready to pass, and if there is anything we can do to help her let go.
Her name is Debbie and she lives in Deerfield, IL.
I am so grateful for any insight you can share.
Sincerely,
Ryann
Hi Ryann,
Love your name!
So sorry to hear about your mom.
To get some information for you, I first connected with you in Virginia and then from you to your mother in Illinois.
At the time of this writing, she is in Phase 7 of the Twelve Phases of Transition®. This means she is surrounded by angels, and the spirits of deceased loved ones and pets.
Everyone goes through the Twelve Phases of Transition® regardless if they pass instantly like in the case of a homicide or suicide, or over a long period of time including days, weeks, months, or like your mom, years.
I asked your mom my standard three questions …
Are you ready to go? She said, “YES”.
Are you in pain? She said, “NO”.
What do you need? She said, “To see the sunlight”.
It’s easy to find out where your mom is in her leaving process. Just ask, “What Phase of Transition is my mom in?” You’ll get an answer in your head within a second. When the thought is immediate, you’ll know it’s from Spirit. Then, just refer to the chart on my website and you’ll have an illustration to guide you.
When your mom seems to be advancing through the Phases quickly, you’ll know to gather any family or friends that want to see her before she passes.
Always keep in mind, as we’re dying, your mom (and all of us), are surrounded by angels, and deceased loved ones. Knowing this adds a glorious component to what is usually a heart-wrenching situation.
Sending lots of hugs your way!