Willena from Bay of Plenty, New Zealand, asked:
Hi Julie,
My mother passed away nearly two years ago and I feel overwhelming guilt because she suffered greatly during her three-day death at home.
Despite our efforts and intermittent help from Hospice, I’m still haunted by her pain. I want to know if her suffering was as severe as I remember.
Can you offer any guidance? The grief feels unending.
Thanks,
Willena
Hi Willena,
I’m so sorry for your loss and the pain you’re experiencing. It’s completely natural to feel overwhelmed with guilt and sadness after witnessing your mother’s suffering. During times like these, finding solace in connecting with her spirit through meditation or prayer can be profoundly healing.
Lenore Matthew, PhD’s research highlights how intuitive abilities and connections to departed loved ones positively impact healing and well-being. We delved into this topic during her guest appearance on my show.
Spirits often communicate in subtle ways—through thoughts that come to us when we think of them, signs in the form of animals or symbols, or through mediums like me. These interactions can bring comfort and reassurance.
Your mother’s spirit has chosen her own path, including the circumstances of her departure. There’s nothing you or anyone could have done to alter that. She wants you to know that she is now happy, whole, and always with you.
Grieving takes time, and seeking support from loved ones or a counselor can provide additional comfort and guidance on your healing journey. If you’re interested in learning more about communicating with your mom, consider exploring my Angels and Enlightenment Training.
In the meantime, here’s a link to download a free digital and audiobook copy of my book, Angelic Attendants: What Really Happens As We Transition From This Life Into The Next. I believe it will offer insight and comfort during this challenging time.