Susan from Queensland, Australia, asked:
Hi Julie,
I heard you on ‘The Grief Coach’ podcast and really liked how you explained spirit.
In March of 2021, I tragically lost my 24-year-old daughter Scarlett from a pulmonary embolism.
I am wracked with guilt thinking that I missed something and should have taken her to the doctor.
I just hate to think of her collapsing and going into cardiac arrest alone on her bedroom floor. I’d like to know if she suffered and if it was quick.
Could we have saved her if the ambulance had gotten there sooner?
Thanks so much from a grieving mother,
Susan
Hi Susan,
My sincere condolences on the loss of your daughter Scarlett. I can’t even imagine what you and your family are going through.
To get some answers for you, I first connected to you in Australia and then from you to Scarlett.
Here’s a synopsis of her replies:
Scarlett wants you to know she (her spirit) chose to transition when, where, how, and alone. There wasn’t anything you or anyone else could’ve done to prevent this from happening.
Scarlett also wants you to know she was indeed surrounded by angels and deceased loved ones so she was (as she put it), far from alone, and she didn’t experience any suffering.
She said that’s why she chose to exit the way she did. It was quick, easy, and painless.
Scarlett wants you to know she’s always around you and appreciates your taking care of her dog.
You may want to investigate the Helping Parents Heal organization. It’s a fabulous global community that provides support to parents who’ve lost a child. I’ll be speaking at their conference later this summer and look forward to meeting the families who will be attending.
In addition, everyone can communicate with a deceased loved one. Here’s how …
Just think of Scarlett, then say something to her either silently or aloud.
Her response will immediately come into your head and feel like a thought.
You’ll know it’s Scarlett answering you when the thought arrives instantly or even before your question or statement is spoken. It’s really that simple.
To learn how to communicate with deceased loved ones, consider taking my new online, self-paced, Angels and Enlightenment Training. It comes with post-training practice sessions to help you develop, validate, and enhance the natural abilities we all have.
Hi Julie,
Thank you so much for answering my questions about my daughter Scarlett. I was so surprised that I was the ‘Grieving Mom’ in the episode title! It’s comforting to know that she didn’t suffer, so thank you for that. She hung on on life support for four days until the drs declared her brain dead. I hope she knew that her brother and I were with her in Sydney until the end.
Thank you once again, I really appreciate it.
Susan