Lisa from Springfield, MO, asked:
Hi Julie,
I am 50, single, and open for my ideal husband to come into my life.
Can you give me some direction on what I should be doing or changing to achieve this into my reality?
I also would like to have more friends that are available to do things.
Thank you,
Lisa
Hi Lisa,
What a great question, one most women have asked at some point in their lives.
In order to get some answers for you, I first energetically connected to you and then called in your spirit guides. I figured they’d be the best ones to advise you in your husband hunting adventure.
Seven spirit guides appeared standing behind you in a horseshoe. They all looked like variations of Father Time (picture Dumbledore in the Harry Potter movies or Gandalf in the Lord Of The Rings movies). That’s how they first appear to me so I know who they are. Then, when I focus on a particular guide, they morph into an image depicting how they looked in the past life that correlates with what you’re currently experiencing.
Having said all that, here are some suggestions:
– Join associations and groups that participate in activities that interest you. An example might be a hiking or biking group, a church group that builds Habitat for Humanity houses, or a group that feeds the homeless. Philanthropic or just-for-fun organizations can broaden your circle of friends and potential partners. Make sure the group includes men.
– Let people know you’re interested in meeting a special someone. You’d be surprised how many parents and grandparents introduce their single family members to potential mates.
– Look at online dating sites and be smart about it. When it’s time to meet, arrange a rendezvous at a public place like a coffee shop or restaurant. Be sure to tell someone the date/time/location of your meeting and the man’s name. Although online dating can be intimidating, it works for a lot of people.
My friend Cheryl is a divorced mother of five in her late 50’s. A few months ago she met a widower who’s a father of 3 and grandfather of 4, online. It was a match! They’re now engaged and very happy.
I know this all must seem a bit scary, so just remember to fake it until you make it. Confidence is a learned skill. The more you practice, the easier it will be.
Finally, keep focused on your mission and be very clear about what qualities you wish your husband to possess. Be open to how he will come into your life. When you meet someone who isn’t right for you, simply be grateful for the opportunity to focus on your desires. It’ll move you closer to finding your man.
Enjoy the journey and let us know when you meet him!