Michelle from Cincinnati, Ohio, asked:
Hi Julie,
My cousin A.J. (who was like a big brother to me) died in June of this year. He was 46.
It was sudden. He fell down his basement stairs, suffered blunt force trauma to his head and died at the hospital.
His death was a shock to the whole family and to all of his friends.
I just wanted to know if he is watching over his kids and his mother and if he suffered since he wasn’t found until the next morning by his 14 year-old son.
Also, does he have any advice for me regarding my life?
Thanks.
Hi Michelle,
My condolences on the loss of your cousin.
When I first connected to you, A.J. was standing next to you on your right side.
He told me he blacked out which caused the fall down the basement steps. He also told me he wasn’t ever in pain because he was unconscious the whole time.
Interestingly enough, he said he died in the middle of the night. Since you mentioned he died the next morning at the hospital, I asked him for clarification.
A.J. then corrected himself and said his spirit evacuated his body in the middle of the night but didn’t leave until he was at the hospital. Remember, spirits are very literal.
Please go to the Twelve Phases of Transition graphics on my website askjulieryan.com to see how the spirit exits the body and is surrounded by angels and loved ones. And, you may want to share the graphics with A.J.’s and your families. These simple drawings normally provide a lot of comfort to those grieving the loss of a loved one.
Please know A.J.’s spirit is frequently around you and his family. Consider him a new heavenly advocate/spirit guide.
As for his advice … he wants you to stop smoking.
Hope this brings you some peace.
