LaShunda from Douglasville, GA, asked:
“I have been on and off with a guy for nearly 3 years now. We had a disagreement and we haven’t spoken in over a month. Do you feel he’ll come back for a serious relationship? If so, when? Is he involved with someone else at the moment?”
Hi LaShunda,
Right now at this moment in time I’m getting that he won’t come back for a serious relationship and that he is currently involved with someone else.
Keep in mind, when predicting the future, there are an unlimited amount of variables that can affect outcome. Will you meet someone you like better? Will his current relationship work out? Does he really possess the attributes you want in a man? The possibilities are endless.
Any decision or combination of choices can change the course of a relationship (or anything else) which makes the future unpredictable. This phenomenon is what religions refer to when discussing how “free will” impacts our lives.
I believe there is always a much bigger picture unfolding than we’re able to perceive. And, I believe things are always happening in our best interest, even when life gets uncomfortable. We’ve all experienced tough situations that have eventually ended up benefitting us.
Do your best to focus on what you want. Think of all the wonderful qualities you’d like to have in your partner and you’ll be more likely to attract that special somebody. Enjoy the adventure!
Blessings,
Julie