Suzy from Seattle, WA, asked:
Hi Julie!
My sister told me about your show and I was wondering if you’d be able to answer a question for me? My husband and I have been having relationship problems and I want to know if he’s been faithful to me.
There is one day, in particular, that I am questioning … Thursday, December 1, 2016 between 3 and 5pm. Can you answer this for me? I also wonder what our future holds. I don’t think he’s been honest with me the past year or so and I want to know if it’s worth thinking about all the time.
Can you tell me why he chooses to be dishonest with me? Is he afraid of how I will react or is it more of a psychological issue? What can I do to help him? He just seems to feel so comfortable lying to me.
Thanks.
Hi Suzy,
When I asked if your husband has been faithful to you, I got a NO. But, when I asked the more specific question … Has Suzy’s husband had sexual relations with any other women while he’s been married to Suzy, I also got a NO. Remember, spirits are very literal so we need to be as specific as possible when asking them for information and guidance. Bottom line, I believe he has indeed been faithful to you.
With regards to December 1st between 3-5pm, I got he was having a drink with guy friends.
I also got he lies to you to keep you from being upset. He loves you and feels like you’re very controlling. He wants to make the relationship work and wants you to back off a bit and not question his every move.
I believe your marriage has a great chance of succeeding long term if you want it to. Focus on and be grateful for all of the good things about your husband. As soon as a negative thought about him enters your mind, immediately switch it to something positive. Make it a habit. With practice you’ll be amazed at how automatic it becomes. You may even want to write 3 things you appreciate about him every day in a journal. That way, if you become angry at him, you can read it and realize what’s important.
If you choose to try this technique, you have a wonderful opportunity to make him feel appreciated and possibly have him do the same for you.
Good luck!