GRIEVING MOM Writes Letters to Her Deceased Daughter — And Gets REAL RESPONSES! With Deborah Shouse – #546

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In this episode:

After losing her daughter Hilee to a tragic overdose, Deborah Shouse found solace through an unexpected connection—letters exchanged with her daughter’s spirit. Encouraged by her grief therapist, Deborah began a profound correspondence that became a path to healing and deeper love. This journey inspired her to write Letters from the Ungrateful Dead, a title reflecting Hilee’s self-awareness after her passing. In this episode, Deborah shares her story, offering hope to others dealing with loss and the complex emotions of grief.

The conversation also explores the challenges of parenting a child struggling with addiction, where love and boundaries often clash. Deborah highlights the peace of knowing a loved one is finally at rest and the ongoing spiritual connection that endures beyond life. Her insights encourage releasing the need for logical answers and embracing a deeper understanding of love.

We also dive into themes of spirituality, the afterlife, and reincarnation, as Deborah shares how her experiences have reshaped her outlook. Whether seeking comfort, guidance, or a deeper connection to loved ones who have passed, this episode offers a compassionate exploration of the resilience and transformation of the human spirit.

Guest Biography:

Deborah Shouse is a writer, editor, laughter yoga facilitator, and dementia advocate known for her diverse career and personal resilience. From her early start as a child writing stories about princesses, she worked various jobs while consistently pursuing her passion for writing. Her work has been featured in prominent publications like The Washington Post, Reader’s Digest, and The Kansas City Star, as well as numerous Chicken Soup for the Soul anthologies.

Inspired by her mother’s journey with dementia, Deborah authored Love in the Land of Dementia and Connecting in the Land of Dementia, focusing on creative activities and hope for caregivers. She and her partner, Ron Zoglin, traveled internationally, sharing these stories with others.

Her life took a devastating turn when her older daughter died of a meth and fentanyl overdose. After months of being unable to write, Deborah channeled her grief into her latest book, Letters from the Ungrateful Dead, which details her unexpected correspondence with her daughter’s spirit. This book reflects her healing journey and enduring desire to remain connected with her daughter.

📣Deborah Shouse’s Website:

➡️https://www.deborahshousewrites.com/

Episode Chapters with Short Key Points:

(0:00:01) – Letters From the Ungrateful Dead

Author Deborah Shouse shares her healing journey of writing letters to her deceased daughter and maintaining a connection beyond death.

(0:15:45) – Navigating Grief and Communication With Spirit

Setting boundaries with a loved one’s addiction, dealing with loss of a child, and finding spiritual connection in grief.

(0:24:42) – Exploring Wisdom Beyond Human Relationships

Roles can reverse between family members after a loved one’s passing, and spirits communicate pure love and joy from the afterlife.

(0:34:59) – Letting Go

A mother’s journey of grief and self-forgiveness after her daughter’s addiction and death, and the wisdom gained from releasing attachment to life’s struggles.

(0:48:58) – Communication With the Spirit World

The chapter explores the emotional journey of losing a loved one to suicide and addiction, discussing stigma, spirituality, and the afterlife.

(0:58:40) – Channeling Wisdom Through Grief and Connection

Connecting with loved ones who have passed or have dementia through writing and telepathy, and how it can bring healing and understanding.

(1:08:17) – Exploring Life, Death, and Spirituality

Reflections on spirituality, life, and the afterlife, shaped by personal experiences and a positive outlook on reincarnation and gratitude.