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Julie Ryan

Deceased

Dancing With Angels

Alban from Essen, Germany, asked:

Hi Julie,

I often talked with my late father about spirit when he was alive but he didn’t believe anything I said.

He was an engineer and kept saying, spirit doesn’t exist.

I’m wondering what he thinks now.

Thanks, and all the best for you in 2024!

Alban

Hi Alban,

To get some information for you, I energetically connected to you and from you to your dad. His spirit came right in.

To connect with any spirit, just think of them. That tunes your satellite dish head to their frequency and opens a communication channel. (All spirits keep the same personal frequency throughout all of their lifetimes.)

I then told your father you were interested in knowing what he thinks about spirit now that he’s in Heaven.

He chuckled and said, “It’s been an enlightening journey, an indescribable journey, and an experience unlike anything he had ever imagined.”

Your dad said his fear of an afterlife, in case it was something bad, was what kept him from wanting to discuss it. He also said he hid (his word) behind his linear-thinking mind. It was a good excuse to change the subject.

Your father said he wants you to know it’s beyond glorious in Heaven, he’s around you a lot, and he likes your new red car. Do you have a new red car?

For more information about how to communicate with your dad, please check out my book Angelic Attendants: What Really Happens as We Transition From This Life Into the Next and my online Angels and Enlightenment Training. They’ll help you get really good at communicating with your dad and anyone else you wish to contact.

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Transcending Mortality

Louise from Bothell, WA, asked:

Hi Julie,

I listened to a recent interview with you and Alex Ferrari and then bought your book, which I’m 50-ish pages into.

You say the dying person’s mother, father, angels, spirit guides of family members, etc., show up and surround the person just prior to their transition. 

I’m curious why I’ve never heard this reported from the countless near-death (NDE) experiencers that I’ve heard over many years – on tv shows, in books, interviews, at IANDS meetings, etc.

Thanks for your thoughts.

Louise

Hi Louise,

What a great question!

It’s been my experience that we’re all surrounded by angels and the spirits of deceased loved ones and pets as we’re at the end of our lives and that’s what I describe in my Angelic Attendants: What Really Happens As We Transition From This Life Into The Next book.

I call this series of events the Twelve Phases of Transition® and it occurs with everyone regardless of whether a person’s death is instant like in the case of a homicide or suicide or whether it’s prolonged over days, weeks, months or years. The Twelve Phases add a glorious component to what can often be described as a heart wrenching experience, losing a loved one.

In his book Death Is But A Dream, Christopher Kerr, MD, PhD, discusses his university-based research in which 90% of patients saw deceased loved ones and pets either in dreams or visions as they were dying. And, critical care medical providers, hospice personnel, as well as funeral directors, family members, and others report the same.

So, you ask, why don’t people experiencing an NDE see the same configuration as the dying? After all, they too are experiencing a form of death temporary as it is.

Perhaps the Twelve Phases of Transition® are reserved for those who are actually dying.

Perhaps it’s just an EXPERIENCE of an aspect of death the NDE shows the person.

Perhaps the NDE is simply intended to broaden a person’s understanding of the afterlife and spirit world and enhance the rest of their human lives.

I believe my explanations are certainly feasible. Guess we’ll know for sure once we get to Heaven.

 

 

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Burial Strips of Linen

Linda from Daytona Beach, FL, asked:

Hi Julie,

I recently read your book Angelic Attendants, (which is amazing), and I have a question about the white gauze.

You only mention it once when describing a death.

Were the other people who had passed also wrapped in it?

Thank you,

Linda

Hi Linda,

Thanks for reading Angelic Attendants and for your terrific question.

I “saw” (in my mind’s eye) the energetic white gauze to which you’re referring get wrapped around my mother’s body as she was in the last hours of her life.

It looked like strips of white linen. The wrapping began at her feet, and over time, included her whole body and head. It reminded me of how ancient Egyptians were wrapped for burial and is what, in present day, we’d call a mummy.

The practice of wrapping a dead body in strips of linen was customary in first century Judea and Egyptians gave the cloth symbolic significance as a representation of purity and called it “woven moonlight.” They considered linen to be a symbol of “purity” and “light.” 

In the Bible’s New Testament, when referring to the resurrection of Jesus, John 20:6-7 talks about an empty tomb, only containing the strips of linen used to bury Jesus.

In the thousands of end-of-life scans I’ve done, I’ve only seen the strips of linen procedure done on two people, my mother and a nun.

When asking Spirit why, I was told, wrapping the body as its spirit is preparing to transition, is an honor bestowed on spirits/souls who have lived countless lifetimes and have greatly served the masses. It’s interesting to note, however, the “holy” people we expect to get this spiritual recognition don’t necessarily receive it. For example, when scanning the last moments of Saint Pope John Paul II’s transition, I didn’t see any linen strips being wrapped around his body.

Lastly, the thought occurred to me that we normally dress our loved one’s corpse in their best clothing for burial. Perhaps the strips of linen used to bury people in ancient cultures was the equivalent.

Thanks for asking such an insightful question.

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Forgiveness Requested

Elaine from Raleigh, NC, asked:

Hi Julie,

My parents passed away within 10 months of each other.

My father’s passing was difficult for my mother. She had Covid and even though she thought she’d recover, she wanted to be with my father in Heaven.

The pandemic prevented valuable family moments. I couldn’t travel to see my parents before they became ill and I regret not spending more time with them.

At the end, I was able to be with my mother at the hospital when she told the nurses that my father and some angels were around her.

I now know my mom was not alone while passing to the spiritual world. She was with my dad, angels, her parents, and other family members.

Did she suffer while in the hospital? Is she now reunited with my father like she wanted?

Please ask my mom to forgive me for not going to visit when she asked me to and tell both of my parents that I miss them every day and love them.

Thanks,

Elaine

Hi Elaine,

My sincere condolences on the passing of your parents.

You are absolutely right in believing your parents were surrounded by angels and the spirits of deceased loved ones and pets as they transitioned. In fact, no one dies alone.

That’s what I discuss in my book Angelic Attendants: What Really Happens As We Transition From This Life Into The Next and it’s validated and corroborated by many healthcare, hospice, and funeral professionals. In addition, Christopher Kerr, MD, found close to 90% of end-of-life patients report seeing the spirits of deceased loved ones and pets in Death Is But A Dream.

Regarding your questions:
– Yes, your mother is now reunited with your dad and all deceased family members, friends, and pets.
– Yes, she did suffer in the hospital and appreciates the care she received.

As for your parents forgiving you for not spending more time with them, they said there wasn’t anything to forgive. They wanted you to know they’re always around you and your family and that they love you very much.

To help you heal, you may want to write a letter (using a pen and paper) to your parents and mention everything you’ve been feeling about your limited time with them and their passing. Include every thought and emotion you can think of and forget about spelling, grammar, etc. Just let your thoughts flow into the words you put on paper.

Once finished, take the letter outside and burn it. Watch the smoke rise toward Heaven and scatter the cooled ashes in your garden knowing your parents are receiving this special gift from you.

I believe you’ll find this exercise to be comforting, healing, and emotionally joyful.

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Messages From Heaven

Sammi from Naperville, IL, asked:

Hi Julie,

Thanks to you and your podcast for giving me hope for the afterlife and the ability to live a fuller life today.

My dad tragically died in a work-related accident in the 70s, just a month before I was born. He was only 20yrs old.

Since then, I have felt his presence by my side, guiding and encouraging me.

Can you ask him if he has something he would like to tell me? I’ve never actually been able to communicate with him, and all I have are a few pictures and stories shared by family.

Thank you ever so kindly. This would mean so much to me.

Sammie

Hi Sammie,

I’m delighted to hear the messages I receive from Spirit provide hope and comfort to you.

In addition, it’s wonderful you feel your dad’s presence, guidance and encouragement and recognize it’s him.

We all have the ability to perceive the spirits of our deceased loved ones, it’s just most of us don’t recognize it.

To get some answers for you, I energetically connected through you to your dad. Here’s what he wants you to know:

– You will always be his precious baby girl.

– Your career is on a trajectory to soar if you just believe in yourself.

– Your fear of hurting other people’s feelings holds you back.

– You don’t have a malicious bone in your body and if you keep your and others’ best interests in mind, you’ll do just fine.

– Figure out a way to share your point of view in a way that conveys your thoughts and beliefs and trust your superiors will appreciate your input.

– He loves and will always love you and appreciates how you love those around you.

Sounds like you have some career opportunities happening.

Our deceased loved ones are always close by and readily available.

To converse with your dad, just think of and say something to him (either silently or aloud). His answer will immediately come into your head and feel like it’s your thought. If you think about his answer for longer than a couple of seconds, that’ll be your brain talking to you.

The more you talk with your dad or any spirit, the more answers you’ll receive, and the more validation you’ll get. That’ll help you trust the information you’re given and talking with any spirit will become second nature to you. It’s really that easy.

Hope you find these messages from your dad helpful!

 

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Celebrities in Heaven

Andie from Fair Oaks, CA, asked:

Hi Julie,

I’m writing on January 17, 2022, the 100th birthday of actress Betty White.

My question is, are celebrities in Heaven or do they go somewhere else?

Would my parents be able to meet Betty since they’re on the other side also?

Thanks for your advice.

Andie

Hi Andie,

What a great question. The answer is absolutely!

Everyone goes to Heaven.

Regardless of who we are, what we do, who we know, etc., all humans are a spirit connected to a body having a human experience. And, when we transition, our spirit, the eternal part of us, separates from our body and becomes non-physical or pure energy.

Spirit has repeatedly told me when in Heaven, our spirit just thinks of something and it instantly materializes.

That can include having a conversation with Betty White, Moses, Aristotle, Mother Teresa, whomever. It can also be an activity like skiing in the Alps, being on safari in Africa, climbing Mt. Everest, absorbing all known information on a topic, whatever.

If your parents want to meet and have a conversation with Betty’s spirit, they can.

More importantly, you can have a conversation with Betty or any spirit whether or not you knew them when they were alive.

Here’s how. Our heads are big satellite dishes that receive and transmit frequencies. Every spirit has its own frequency it keeps throughout all its lifetimes. All you have to do is think of the person and you’ll be connected to their spirit.

Then, just ask a question or make a statement. The spirit will answer you within a second. It’ll come in like a thought in your head. If you think about the answer for more than a couple seconds, that’ll be your brain talking with you. It’s really that easy.

Now, go have fun communicating with your deceased loved ones and anyone you wish.

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A Father’s Wishes

April from Charleston, WV, asked:

Hi Julie,

My father transitioned on August 12, 2021, after losing the ability to swallow and enduring nearly two weeks without food or water. Thankfully, my sister and I were able be at his side through the whole process, something for which I will be forever grateful.

His ex-wife was his caretaker and had power of attorney over his affairs. My sister and I are the only beneficiaries in his Will.

Our relationship with his ex-wife has always been rocky, and we do not trust her to fulfill our father’s wishes. We don’t know where his assets are located so Dad’s ex-wife is the one who must supply that information.

Because of all this, we have decided to pursue a full probate but don’t want to create unnecessary strife if it isn’t what our father would want. 

Any guidance you can offer would be so very appreciated.

Thank you!

April

Hi April,

My condolences on the loss of your father.

Thanks for submitting your question. Unfortunately, it’s one grieving families too often face.

The American Bar Association (ABA) says, “Probate is the formal legal process that gives recognition to a Will and appoints the executor or personal representative who will administer the estate and distribute assets to the intended beneficiaries.”

In order to get some more guidance for you, I consulted with my dear friend Diana, a retired judge. She said, “Probate can be acrimonious and costly but fruitful if someone is truly hiding assets. So, the real question is, do they believe she would/is hiding assets? If yes, then probate can force an investigation and hopefully disclosure as the court has the ability to order an independent investigation.” 

Having said all that, I connected with your dad’s spirit and asked him for his opinion. Here’s a summary of our conversation:

– Is it in your daughters’ your best interest to pursue full probate to settle your estate? He said YES.

– Is your ex-wife attempting to hide some of your assets? He said YES.

– Is it worth the legal fees your daughters will incur to pursue full probate on your estate? He said YES.

– Do you suggest your daughters pursue full probate in settling your estate. Again, he said YES.

Your story is a reminder that everyone, even people without assets, needs a Will. Add to that a Living Will, Durable Power of Attorney and Medical Power of Attorney. It’s a gift of love to make the settling of your estate as easy as possible on your loved ones.

Hope these suggestions and answers from your father help you decide what to do.

 

 

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Educate and Comfort

Shari from Columbus, OH, asked:

Hi Julie,

I read your book Angelic Attendants and it is excellent!

I was by my mother’s side when she transitioned 21 years ago and it was actually a beautiful experience.

I sense her around me all the time and her spirit even showed up in a picture taken of me and my family four years after she passed away! I will treasure this picture forever.

For years, I’ve been wanting to reach out to other people to comfort them after their loved one has passed and let them know their spirit can still be present with them even when they are no longer in the physical world. Alas, I have no idea how to do this.

Any suggestions?

Thank you for taking time to read and answer my question.

Sincerely,

Shari

Hi Shari,

Thanks for your kind comments and for reading Angelic Attendants.

Love the story about your mom’s spirit showing up in your family photo several years after she passed. What a great example of your mother letting you know she’s around you.

Regarding your desire to help comfort and educate those who’ve lost a loved one, I have several suggestions:

– Volunteer with a hospice organization.

– Get involved in grief support groups at local churches, hospitals, senior centers, and online.

– Gift a book on the topic. Two favorites are my Angelic Attendants: What Really Happens As We Transition From This Life Into The Next and Death Is But A Dream by Christopher Kerr, MD, PhD.

– Send people a link to my interview with Dr. Chris Kerr. It’s enlightening, heartwarming, and validates how spirits surround end-of-life patients.

– Consider taking my Angelic Attendant Training and learn to telepathically communicate with the dying person and tell how close to passing they are by identifying the Twelve Phases of Transition®. The information you’ll receive can be enormously helpful and comforting to the family.

Hope you find these ideas thought-provoking.

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Halloween Haunted House

Bryan from Imperial, CA, asked:

Hi Julie,

I am staying in a room in the house of a friend and her fiancé. Upon my first day here, it felt like the energy wasn’t right in certain areas. I often hear thumps, cracks, and noises, and feel like I’m being watched.

During the day when I’m here alone, the fridge will start to hum, whirr, and buzz when I walk into the kitchen and I hear strange noises in the walls. The dogs react as well with growls and barking. I’ve given up trying to cleanse, protect, and fight off energies in the house.

Since I was a kid, I’ve been able to pick-up on spirit energies and voices. This ability makes me come across as mentally unstable to friends and family who don’t experience the same. I feel isolated at times because nobody believes what I tell them about the spirit phenomena I feel and hear.

What can I do to at least have the spirits stop bothering me? And, what can be done about how I pick up on things? Ignorance seems to be bliss and I’d rather not have this “gift”.

Thanks,

Bryan

Hi Bryan,

Since Halloween is just a few days away, I appreciate the timeliness of your question.

Most cultures have a day that venerates the dead so how did we go from honoring our deceased loved ones to being afraid of them?

History.com says, Halloween is a holiday celebrated each year on October 31st. The tradition originated with the ancient Celtic festival of Samhain (pronounced sow-in) 2,000 years ago marking the end of summer and the harvest and the beginning of the dark, cold winter, a time of year that was often associated with human death. Celts believed that on the night before the new year, the boundary between the worlds of the living and the dead became blurred and that the ghosts of the dead returned to earth. Emphasis on the word celebration.

Then, in the eighth century, Pope Gregory III designated November 1st as a time to honor every saint. Soon, All Saints Day incorporated some of the traditions of Samhain. The evening before was known as All Hallows Eve, and later Halloween. Over time, Halloween evolved into a day of activities like trick-or-treating, carving jack-o-lanterns, festive gatherings, donning costumes and eating treats. Again, it was a celebration of the deceased.

Congratulations on recognizing your “gift” of being able to perceive spirits. It’s an ability every person and animal possess.

We all experience what can be called a psychic moment when we think we see a spirit out of the corner of our eye or feel a strange sensation when entering a room. In the most recent few hundred years, people have been taught to be afraid of spirits by religions, cultures, and the publishing and entertainment industries. This is why people are uncomfortable discussing spiritual occurrences, because like you, they don’t want to look crazy.

Keep in mind, all spirits are pure love and “evil” spirits don’t exist so there’s nothing to fear. If you don’t want to be bothered by spirits, just ask them to leave and they will. But then, you may want to consider embracing the spirits around you and ask if they have a message for you or a message they’d like for you to convey to someone.

In the movie The Sixth Sense starring Bruce Willis and Haley Joel Osment, spirits contact a boy (Osment) to deliver messages to their loved ones. After initially resisting the spirits’ communications, the boy realizes by sharing the information, he helps people heal. I believe you’re being given the opportunity to do the same.

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