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Did He Know He Was Dying?

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Jan from Kilkenny, Ireland, asked:

Hi Julie,

I am American but I live in Ireland, where I met my partner, the love of my life, my heart, my home. If ever there was a definition of soulmates and kindred spirits, it was us.

In November, 2021, my love had what we thought was pneumonia, but he was young, strong, fit, and ignored it, said he felt fine, and wanted nothing to do with doctors.

I eventually got him seen and several different doctors confirmed a pneumonia diagnosis. Unfortunately, they were all wrong. Turns out he had a very rare form of lung cancer.

The doctors told me 80% of patients with this illness could be treated with molecular-targeted chemo. Again, they were mistaken and he died ten days later.

Can you tell me, when did his soul know he wasn’t going to make it, when did he consciously know, and how did I miss it?

He asked me if I thought he had cancer, and I said, “No, but you do have a very serious life-threatening illness”. I didn’t tell him when the test results came back. I was scared, I didn’t know what to do, I wanted us to hope.

Is he angry at me and will he ever forgive me for not telling him?

Thanks.

Jan

Hi Jan,

I’m so sorry to hear about your soulmate and extend my sincere condolences.

Please know, we all (that is, our spirits) decide when, where, how, and with whom we die. Ask any hospice or end-of-life medical provider or caregiver and they’ll have countless stories about a loved one or patient waiting until someone arrives or leaves before taking their last breath.

To get some answers to your questions, I first energetically connected to you and from you to your honey’s spirit. Here’s what he “told” me (telepathically) …

He said he consciously knew about a week before he passed that he was dying. He said his soul knew before his first symptoms appeared, and he said you weren’t supposed to know because he needed and wanted you right there with him.

As for him forgiving you, he said there wasn’t anything to forgive. He said until the end, you were the best partner he could’ve ever imagined.

He also wants you to know he’s always around you and suggests you keep a bouquet of yellow flowers to remind you of him. He showed me a vase of yellow daffodils in the spring, yellow iris and/or lilies in the summer, and yellow roses and silk flowers in the winter.

He was so specific about yellow flowers that I researched their symbolism. Among other things, yellow flowers are used to honor loved ones after they have passed. Thought that was spot on!

Although your love’s passing won’t ever make sense to you, I hope this information helps you heal.

Please consider reading my Angelic Attendants: What Really Happens As We Transition From This Life Into the Next book. I believe it will comfort you.

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Coins From Heaven

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Teresa from Lake Havasu, AZ, asked:

Hello Julie,

I have been experiencing finding coins almost every day, sometimes more than ten times a day.

At this point, it happens so frequently, I just expect the coins to show up.

The coins can be pennies, nickels, dimes, or quarters, and show the year my loved ones’ or my husband’s loved ones’ died.

I call out and ask what they’re trying to tell us. Please tell me what you think. 

Thanks,

Teresa

Hi Teresa,

Your loved ones are letting you know several things:

– They’re always around you.

– The death year shown is to celebrate their “Heavenly” birthdays, i.e., when they transitioned.

– You are attracting abundance.

Furthermore, in many cultures, coins have historically been a part of burial practices.

In Greek mythology, coins were needed to get to the afterlife so in ancient Greece, coins would be placed in the mouth or eyes of the deceased and provide money for their journey.

In Cambodia, a silver or gold coin was placed in the mouth of the deceased before cremation. This was considered the only wealth the dead could take to the afterlife. 

Another burial tradition in many cultures is the practice of putting coins on graves. When visiting Veteran cemeteries in the United States, you may see coins on headstones.

There is a meaning associated with each coin. A penny means someone has visited the grave. A nickel signifies the visitor served with the deceased service member at boot camp. A dime means the visitor and deceased service member served together at some point and a quarter is left by someone who was physically with the service member when he or she died.

Coins are left on graves in other cultures too. Throughout Latin America, people leave coins on the graves of their loved ones. This happens predominantly in areas where wealth isn’t plentiful. Leaving a few coins on a grave is a way to show respect without having to find the money for a bouquet of flowers. 

I hope you continue to enjoy these amazing signs from your deceased loved ones.

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Heal My Little Boy

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Maria from Springfield, VA, asked:

Hi Julie,

Could you please scan my son, Enzo? He is 6 years-old and suffers from sporadic muscle spasms.  

We had a whole exome genetic test done and learned he has a variant on the ADCY5 gene that causes his dyskinesia.

In addition, he’s recently begun drooling excessively. Is the drooling caused by his medication or does he have an issue with his tongue and swallowing?

Could you heal him and stop his muscle spasms? His muscle spasms prevent him from sleeping at night.  

Even with all his physical challenges, he’s so considerate of others and tries so hard to do everything other kids can do!

Thank you.

Maria

Hi Maria,

Thanks for submitting your question about your little boy Enzo. I’ll do all I can to help him.

To energetically connect with Enzo, I first connected to you and then to him. He telepathically gave me permission to scan him.

In my mind’s eye, not all of his muscle fibers looked straight and tight. Rather, some were curvy, like a winding road, and a bit loose. The idea of Enzo’s spasms tightening the loose strands entered my head.

Next, I saw (again in my mind’s eye), four strands of Enzo’s DNA get re-sequenced back to normal.

Does Enzo take magnesium? I’m “getting” he is deficient.

Lastly, I do believe his drooling is a side effect of his medication. Perhaps Enzo’s doctor can suggest a different one.

As for my healing Enzo, no one heals another person. We all heal ourselves.

The healings I facilitate happen on the energetic level and integrate into a person’s body.

That can happen instantly, take days, weeks, or months, and may need complimentary care like medicine, physical therapy, change in diet, etc.

It’s always the person’s spirit’s choice of how or even whether a healing will be integrated into their body.

Hope Enzo’s feeling better soon!

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Bereaved Daughter Seeks Answers

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Hellen from Kampala, Uganda, asked:

Hi Julie,

I just recently learned about you and wish I had known about you sooner.

My dad recently passed in late December from prostate cancer. He was 74 years old and my mom passed away in 2000. My father’s death is very devastating for me and my family because he was our only surviving parent.

When my dad was diagnosed in August of 2018, my sister and I immediately embarked on a mission to help him survive. This included medical intervention and prayer.

I feel let down by God for not healing my dad or for at least allowing him to live a somehow normal life with the cancer.

We weren’t there at the time my dad passed because our goal was for him to get better and leave the hospital alive.

Can you please share any information about his transition, any message from him or my mother, and why God didn’t answer our prayers about giving him a second chance so we could have him a little longer.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Thank you for all the work you do.

Kind regards,

Hellen

Hi Hellen,

My sincere condolences to you and your family on the loss of your father.

It sounds like you and your sister went out of your way to assist him in a multitude of ways both physical and spiritual at the end of his life.

Feeling let down or even angry with God is understandable and is part of the grieving process.

The University of Washington Counseling Center says the five stages of grief are, “Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance, and that these stages are our attempts to process change and protect ourselves while we adapt to a new reality.”

There isn’t anything you or anyone else could’ve done to prolong your dad’s life. It has been my experience (in working with thousands of families as their loved one is at the end of their lives) that we all decide when, where, how, and with whom we transition. Although it doesn’t make sense to most of us left behind, it is always a person’s spirit’s prerogative to make these choices. 

Just ask any funeral director, pastor, or medical provider who has worked with dying people. They’ll have countless stories about how the person waited for someone to arrive, waited until everyone left the room, or waited for a final request to be granted.

Regarding your dad’s transition, no one ever dies alone, including your dad. He was surrounded by angels, the spirits of deceased loved ones and pets and of course your mom’s spirit was there too. Please check out my Angelic Attendants: What Really Happens As We Transition From This Life Into The Next book for more details.

As for messages from your parents, your mother’s spirit is showing me herself smiling and holding a bunch of brightly colored balloons. She went on to say, all life, whether in physical or spirit is like a party!

Your dad is showing me him sitting in a chair in the countryside watching herds of wild animals like zebras and wildebeests run by. He told me he loves doing that because since he’s now a spirit, the animals can’t see him. He sounds like he was a fun guy.

Hope this information comforts you.

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Sjogren’s Cause and Healing

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Judy from Long Beach, MS, asked:

Although I’m 73 years old and relatively healthy, an auto-immune condition called Sjogren’s syndrome rears its ugly head regularly now.

Joint soreness, muscle pain, etc., have become part of my life although I walk at least a mile every day.

In addition, I also have severe neuropathy in both lower legs and I’m still having hot flashes.

Can you help?

Thanks,

Judy

Hi Judy,

Thanks for your question. I’ll do my best to help you find some relief.

The Mayo Clinic says, “Sjogren’s syndrome is a disorder of the immune system identified by its two most common symptoms — dry eyes and a dry mouth.”

So, to get some answers for you, I energetically connected to you and saw a hologram of your body in my mind’s eye. Your gut and GI tract looked very inflamed, even raw in some areas, and the nerves in your legs looked dark in spots. This is how injured nerves appear (again in my mind’s eye) to me.

Next, I saw a healing occur in your stomach and GI tract that involved using a thick, white, cream with anti-inflammatory properties to calm the affected tissues. Then I saw stem cell energy applied to regenerate those tissues.

As for the nerves in your legs, I watched a healing on them that included clearing out the dead cells and debris followed by stem cell energy to regenerate the injured nerves. Interestingly enough, in an article published by the National Institutes of Health, researchers found a connection between the gut and Sjogren’s symptoms.

The article stated, “Sjögren’s syndrome showed significant gut dysbiosis compared to controls and environmental dry eye syndrome.”

This is great news because it means if you work on getting your gut healthy, it’ll most likely help lessen or even eradicate your symptoms.

Since food is the best medicine, please consider doing an at-home gut biome test that will help you identify what foods are best for you to avoid and what foods are best to incorporate into your diet.

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Questions About Dying Process

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Meg from London, England, asked:

Dear Julie,

After reading your Angelic Attendants: What Really Happens As We Transition From This Life Into The Next book, I have two questions I’d like to ask you please:

1) If someone wasn’t in contact nor on good terms with a parent, would that parent still show up in the horseshoe formation at the time of death of their son or daughter?

2) If an accident happens, leaving someone brain dead, but still looked after in hospital with a breathing machine, would that ‘horseshoe formation’ be present immediately after the fall, or would ‘all beings’ wait for the moment the breathing machine would be stopped in hospital, i.e. when the ‘official’ time of death takes place ?

Many thanks for your clarification on these two queries.

Have a great day.

With white light,

Meg

Hi Meg,

Thanks for reading Angelic Attendants and for your questions.

Deceased parents and/or maternal grandparents are always present when someone is in the dying process even if they didn’t have a good relationship with the person when they were alive.

Now, before you get too far with this concept, it’s important to remember that all spirits are pure love and negative personality traits stay with the body when someone dies.

Regarding what happens when someone is “brain dead” and on a ventilator (breathing machine), the Twelve Phases of Transition® begin when the person enters the dying process. That’s when their spirit exits the body and holds on to the top of the head in a speech bubble configuration. The Twelve Phases then continue to unfold as the person gets closer to exiting.

Phase Twelve is when someone’s body and spirit separate and angels escort the person’s spirit to Heaven.

It has been my experience in working with thousands of people and their families at the end of life that we all go through the Twelve Phases of Transition®. It can happen instantly like in the case of a homicide or suicide or it can unfold over days, weeks, months and has the ability to add a glorious component to what can be a heart wrenching experience.

Hope this answers your questions and comforts you.

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Spiritual Career Advice

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Paige from Baxter, MN, asked:

Hi Julie,

Long time listener here reaching out from snowy Minnesota! I love listening to your podcasts and would appreciate your insight.

I am struggling at my current job and no longer feel like a vibrational match for the work I do. I feel stuck. I know that I can go out and find an alternate career to make money, but at this point I am truly looking for something that brings me fulfilment and joy rather than just a paycheck.

I am currently working for a Real Estate agency doing things such as marketing and agent training, along with a bunch of miscellaneous tasks. I have been doing my best to stay positive and be open to new opportunities but nothing has quite piqued my curiosity. My gut tells me it is in my best interest to leave my current position at this agency.

Would you or my guides have any advice for me in this instance?

Thank you, and much love!

Paige

Hi Paige,

Thanks for your kind comments and for listening to my show.

If you were a trust fund baby and had more money than you could ever spend in a lifetime, what would you do for fun? Would you travel, start some type of philanthropy, or become a champion rock climber?

The first thoughts that enter your mind will be a clue from spirit (God, your spirit guides, angels, deceased loved ones, etc.) for how to proceed.

Every day we humans receive lots of spiritual guidance in the form of thoughts. Some thoughts feel bad or don’t make sense to us while others feel neutral or good. Thoughts that feel good are called intuition and are ideas/guidance from spirit.

Most intuitive thoughts go unheeded. We think them and either let them go intending to address these ideas at another time, or, we immediately think of why we can’t act on them.

For example, say you get a thought to visit Rome and you immediately think of reasons why you can’t go. You don’t speak Italian, don’t know anyone in Rome, don’t have the money to pay for a plane ticket, hotel and meals, and don’t have anyone to go with you. You get the idea.

So, to help you manifest your new career, pay attention to what interests and excites you. What do you want to learn more about? Then take a step in the direction of your interest. It may be as simple as visiting a website, reading a book, or watching a YouTube video on the subject.

You’ll be led to the next step and the one after that and so on. Trust everything is unfolding perfectly in the most optimal way and time. Expect the people and circumstances to show up right when you need them and they will. Stay focused on what you want not how you’ll get it. When we allow, our wishes can materialize in sometimes magical ways. When we try to control how or when something can or will happen, we block experiences that can be even better than what we’d imagined.

Pablo Picasso said, “Inspiration exists, but it has to find you working.” I agree. The most important part of creating anything, including an amazing career for yourself, is to take action. Follow your interests and be open to where the journey leads you.

P.S. – Stay at your current job until you have another source of income to take its place!

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Angels Escorted Little Boy

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Wendi from O’Fallon, MO, asked:

Hi Julie,

I heard your wonderful podcast with Dave Asprey and I would love a copy of your Angelic Attendants book.

My 3-year-old son died from a medication error during his surgery. He went into cardiac arrest on the operating room table and suffered devastating strokes from the lack of oxygen to his brain.

We spent a week in the hospital trying to control the brain swelling, but to no avail. He herniated and was declared brain dead.

I was left with so much pain, anger, questions, sorrow, guilt, and devastation.

There is so much I want to say here but I’ll just say knowing that he left with my grandparents and angels gives me some comfort and peace.  And I pray that his time in the OR and ICU were pain free and he is now at peace with the angels!

Thanks for any input you can share.

Wendi

Hi Wendi,

Oh my goodness, my condolences to you and your family.

Please know your son was surrounded by angels and the sprits of deceased loved ones and pets as he transitioned. We all are.

In fact, university-based research shows close to 90% of people see the spirits of their deceased loved ones and pets in dreams and visions in the days and months preceding death.

To get some information for you, I telepathically communicated with your little boy’s spirit. He said, “Mommy, I can see you through my telescope,” and showed me a scene of him looking through an old-fashioned, nautical telescope once used by ship captains.

Does that mean anything to you? Did your son pretend to be a pirate or captain of a ship?

His message may just be to convey he’s playing happily in Heaven. Hope this information comforts you.

Lastly, please visit Helping Parent Heal. It’s a wonderful organization that has helped comfort countless families and I believe you’d greatly benefit from their programs.

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Life in Heaven

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Vivian from Sherman Oaks, CA, asked:

Hi Julie,

On a recent guided meditation, I was able to see my son. He showed me a woman and a little boy and I understood they were his family. I also understood that it wasn’t here on earth. They were all in heaven. Can this be possible?

Do our loved ones continue their lives and they are able to get married and have a family? 

He never got to have one here. He passed when he was 22.

Thanks, Vivian

Hi Vivian,

What a terrific question! Thanks for submitting it.

First though, my condolences on the passing of your son.

It’s been my experience in chatting with tens of thousands of spirits that yes, indeed, we live countless lives with many other spirits. Some call them our “soul family” and they can be in multiple lives with us playing different roles.

For example, your son may have been your parent, grandparent, friend, colleague, or acquaintance in your past lives. It’s as if we all assume a role in each lifetime that allows our spirit to explore and experience different perspectives. It’s much like how an actor plays a role in a movie.

With regard to the woman and little boy your son showed you, they are just what I mentioned above, they are his “soul family” and can be with him in heaven as well as in subsequent lifetimes.

Please know you can communicate with your son anytime you like. Just think of him and say something either in your mind or aloud. His answer will be the first thought that comes into your head within a second or less.

If you’d like to learn how to communicate with any spirit regardless of whether they’re attached to a body or not, please check out my training classes. We all have the ability. It’s just a matter of developing and enhancing the innate abilities we all possess.

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